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Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss

@deirdrewriterintheabyss

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

The Word “Just” In Everyday Language Isn’t About Politeness: It Minimises What Is Said

When subtle, small words change the narrative and shift responsibility — the psychology of minimising language

Mar 04, 2026 · 4 min read · 433 claps paywalled #minimalism #politeness #reframing

The Word “Just” In Everyday Language Isn’t About Politeness: It Minimises What Is Said

DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

Institutional DARVO: When Complaints Are Turned Against You

When I complained about control, they responded with more control. The system didn’t fix the problem; I became the problem

Apr 29, 2026 · 6 min read · 417 claps paywalled #darvo #institutions #control

Institutional DARVO: When Complaints Are Turned Against You

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

Trauma Flashbacks and PTSD Are Not Weaknesses, But Crucial Information

The body remembers before words can. Trauma is preverbal. Horror comes before words, and the past happens all over again

May 08, 2026 · 5 min read · 335 claps paywalled #trauma #ptsd #healing-from-trauma

Trauma Flashbacks and PTSD Are Not Weaknesses, But Crucial Information

DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

The Fastest Way to Spot a Liar Isn’t Body Language. It’s Their Answers

Most people think that avoiding eye contact means lying. But better clues are how someone answers unpredictable questions

Mar 25, 2026 · 6 min read · 324 claps paywalled #lying #body-language #deception

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

Recent Neuroscience Modelling Suggests The Brain Predicts Trauma (Not The Body)

Predictive coding and metastability add a new layer to “The Body Keeps the Score”. It suggests that trauma is a loss of brain flexibility.

May 25, 2026 · 5 min read · 261 claps paywalled #predictions #healing-from-trauma #trauma

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

Sakura and Impermanence: Why Cherry Blossoms Feel So Emotional

Cherry blossoms are more than a spring festivity — this Japanese tradition reminds us why the simple things in life matter.

Apr 09, 2026 · 5 min read · 250 claps paywalled #cherry-blossoms #human-nature #impermanence

Sakura and Impermanence: Why Cherry Blossoms Feel So Emotional

DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

Some People Hear the Truth While Others Hear a Softer Version of It

We change how honest we can be depending on who is listening — and that may be emotionally intelligent

Mar 23, 2026 · 5 min read · 243 claps paywalled #human-behaviour #truth #interpersonal-comm

Some People Hear the Truth While Others Hear a Softer Version of It

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

Life For Rent: When You Refuse To Pay The Price of Junk Systems

When your passion to live is weaponised, fighting for selfhood becomes the intrinsic motivation that keeps you going

Apr 24, 2026 · 7 min read · 242 claps paywalled #life-lessons #junk #motivation

Life For Rent: When You Refuse To Pay The Price of Junk Systems

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

5 Insightful Stories for Reflection: Trauma Bonding and the Nervous System — Recovery and Healing

Links to my stories on trauma bonding, gaslighting, the nervous system, and cognitive dissonance. What’s the connection?

Jun 05, 2026 · 4 min read · 242 claps paywalled #cognitive-dissonance #trauma-bonding #traumahealing

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

When Hidden Harm Masquerades as Charm and Civility

Never let anyone convince you that you don’t matter — or make you doubt your feelings, judgment, and reality. A life lesson.

Jun 12, 2026 · 5 min read · 229 claps paywalled #emotional-abuse #trauma-bond #gaslighting

When Hidden Harm Masquerades as Charm and Civility

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

1st April — “Taradiddle Day”: A Rare, Remarkably Awesome Alternative Everyday Word

This quirky old word for petty lies and nonsense is the perfect match for April Fool’s Day

Apr 01, 2026 · 4 min read · 207 claps paywalled #word-of-the-day #quirky #diversity

1st April — “Taradiddle Day”: A Rare, Remarkably Awesome Alternative Everyday Word

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Admiring Multipotentiality

Red Nose Day

Drabble #107

Oct 23, 2024 · 1 min read · 205 claps paywalled #admiringmultipotentiality #drabble #comic-relief

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

When Belonging Overpowers Love: Exclusion Is Powerful

What happens when shared political ideology outweighs shared history? Is it worse in close friendships than with strangers?

Feb 26, 2026 · 4 min read · 200 claps paywalled #belonging #political #identity

When Belonging Overpowers Love: Exclusion Is Powerful

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

When It’s Not About Tone of Voice: It’s About Shifting The Focus In Communication

It’s about shifting attention from what’s being said to how it’s being said — and avoiding the substance of what you’re saying

Mar 04, 2026 · 4 min read · 181 claps paywalled #tone-of-voice #attention #focus

When It’s Not About Tone of Voice: It’s About Shifting The Focus In Communication

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

When Trauma Bonds Keep You Stuck

Trauma bonds play tricks on our minds. From gaslighting to manipulation. It’s crucial to recognise this and break free.

Jun 05, 2026 · 7 min read · 115 claps paywalled #healing-from-trauma #trauma-bond #nervous-system

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

Daydreaming, Narcissistic and Schizoid Traits, and Personality Disorders

A first-of-its-kind psychological study shows how maladaptive daydreaming interferes with daily life in undiagnosed people

Jun 11, 2026 · 5 min read · 99 claps paywalled #narcissism #maladaptive-daydreaming #personality-traits

Daydreaming, Narcissistic and Schizoid Traits, and Personality Disorders

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Psychology Hits | Decoding the Mind

Forgiveness Has an Expiry Date When Reality Updates Itself

Discernment shouldn’t be mistaken for bitterness. Repeated harm changes the meaning of forgiveness.

Jun 10, 2026 · 5 min read · 35 claps paywalled #forgiveness #trauma-recovery #psychological-safety

Forgiveness Has an Expiry Date When Reality Updates Itself

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DE Deirdre | Writer In The Abyss · Never Stop Writing

Marshmallows in the Moonlight

The word is ‘skewer’ and it’s a 150-word drabble

Sep 12, 2024 · 1 min read · 0 claps paywalled #random #drabble #fiction