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Ivylockewrites

@ivylockewrites

articles: 12
total claps: 1,944
top claps: 317
avg read: 6.0 min
paywalled: 12
active: 2025-05-15 → 2026-07-15

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💑 · Relationships · 5 🏀 · Basketball · 3 ✊ · Equality & Identity · 2 PSY · Psychology · 1 🚀 · Self Improvement · 1 🏆 · Sports · General · 1 ⚖️ · Law & Justice · 1 🔧 · Data Engineering · 1

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#black-women ·8 #misogyny ·4 #polyamory ·2 #nba ·2 #megan-thee-stallion ·2 #misogynoir ·2 #racism ·2 #narcissistic-abuse ·1 #financial-abuse ·1 #donovan-mitchell ·1

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

The Klay Thompson Conundrum

When "Choosing Better" Goes Wrong

Apr 28, 2026 · 8 min read · 317 claps paywalled #klay-thompson #megan-thee-stallion #misogynoir

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

Let’s Talk Hypergamous Men

What we’ve learned from Kandi and Todd’s “Amicable” Divorce

Mar 26, 2026 · 7 min read · 301 claps paywalled #black-women #hypergamy #marriage

IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

Is Keith Lee a Simp or are You Just a Wimp?

Male responses to Keith Lee’s comments on childbearing are very telling

May 21, 2026 · 5 min read · 271 claps paywalled #toxic-masculinity #red-pill #black-women

Is Keith Lee a Simp or are You Just a Wimp?

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

Coco Jones Would Rather Be Homeless Than Depend on a Man

Exploring the many woes of financial abuse

Apr 14, 2026 · 5 min read · 239 claps paywalled #black-women #narcissistic-abuse #financial-abuse

Coco Jones Would Rather Be Homeless Than Depend on a Man

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

No Trickin’ Allowed

K. Michelle discusses the terms of her open marriage

Jun 08, 2026 · 6 min read · 185 claps paywalled #polyamory #polygamy #relationships

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

The Cult of Nature Boy

How Lack of Community Leaves Us Vulnerable to Narcissistic Abuse

May 08, 2026 · 6 min read · 151 claps paywalled #dangerous-cults #true-crime #religion

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IV Ivylockewrites · Big List Energy

7 Signs You’re Being Breadcrumbed and How to Reclaim Your Time

Tips to remove yourself from a dead-end relationship

Jun 25, 2026 · 5 min read · 137 claps paywalled #toxic-relationships #black-women #relationships-love-dating

7 Signs You’re Being Breadcrumbed and How to Reclaim Your Time

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

Shattered Glass Slippers: The Tory Lanez Trial Revisited

Broken glass, everywhere…

May 15, 2025 · 4 min read · 86 claps paywalled #tory-lanez #megan-thee-stallion #domestic-violence

Shattered Glass Slippers: The Tory Lanez Trial Revisited

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

Stop Playing With Jaylen Brown

Addressing the media slander against one of the greatest Celtics ever

Jun 29, 2026 · 6 min read · 81 claps paywalled #jaylen-brown #nba #racism

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

From Fouls to Felonies

The evolution of misogynoir in the WNBA

Jul 15, 2026 · 7 min read · 76 claps paywalled #racism #caitlin-clark #misogynoir

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IV Ivylockewrites · AfroSapiophile

8 Life Lessons From the Knicks Championship Win

This one is for the underdogs

Jun 16, 2026 · 9 min read · 50 claps paywalled #the-knick #nba #basketball

8 Life Lessons From the Knicks Championship Win

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IV Ivylockewrites · Frizzy Hair Chronicles

Jay-Z’s Comb-Out at Roots Picnic Reveals Black Hair Ignorance

Yes, people, you can comb out locs

Jun 01, 2026 · 4 min read · 50 claps paywalled #jay-z #the-roots-picnic #natural-hair