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What Is the Most Difficult Of All?

Do you know?

Malaika Fayyaz in Know Thyself, Heal Thyself · 2024-10-24 15:27 · 550 claps · 1.3 min read paywalled
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What Is the Most Difficult Of All?

Do you know?

Photo by JOHN TOWNER on Unsplash

Photo by JOHN TOWNER on Unsplash

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Life is like the above picture, where there is just one ray of hope that keeps us going, and the remaining darkness is what we have to accept in order to keep going.

I never thought I would write about this until I faced it.

Life comes with change, you know and you cannot deny it. No matter how hard or difficult, you have to face it. But why just you — it’s us. We are under the same roof.

The happiness, sadness, ups, and downs — everything is a part of life. You know this is nothing, because we know it happens. But then what is difficult, if this isn’t?

Accepting it.

We are selfish people. We accept everything that makes us happy, but we don’t accept anything that makes us sad. This is how life works. An unpredictable life — full of sorrows.

When I was a teenager, I was such a selfish person. I used to question the bad circumstances of the situation in my life. I used to ask God, “Why? Why always me?”

But when I grew up, I realized what is most important of all. Accepting all the changes in the life. Accepting that life does not remain the same.

Life gives happiness, but life hurts too.

Acceptance comes with experience. You learn and then you make a decision of accepting everything. This is how a good life works.

Don’t think of me as a strong person. I sometimes fail to accept the reality because after all we are human beings.

How we, as adults desperately, want to go back to childhood is still unacceptable for me.

I know you have a lot to say. Say it aloud in the comment section without hesitation.


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