How do you tackle loneliness?

Introduction

Maybe in your school or college days, you might have lived a wonderful life. The life you desire may happen quickly or kinda late. That ain’t an issue. But when you really have desires you can’t fulfill in your present, then what is right is to hide them until you have the potential to do so.

Now your problem is you want people to mingle with you or the other way around. In school or college, you will have so many friends; give handshakes and hugs in the auditorium or in the sports playground. I know this builds an amazing community.

The Problem After College Life

But your issue is after that college life, your routine will be so ugly for real in such a way that all you do is:

1. Wake up
2. Go to work
3. Finish the module for the client
4. Gym/Home Workout

Repeat!

Yea, if your life goes like this constantly, this blog is for you for real. And I warn you, you will end up being lonely, feeling you don’t have that drive to push yourself like hell.

Work on Yourself

I am happy in my current state that I have slow progress, BUT IT STILL IS PROGRESS THOUGH.

This is the time you work on your body, mind, and well-being. Remember to snap out of your corporate life and come out of it like you threw a huge burden from your life.

Now coming back to our topic.

The Solution: Networking

This answer is simple and straightforward.

In one word, networKING.

You gotta network with some people who you want to be like. Connect with them, learn to make good terms with them, never do anything that makes them irritated.

Hackathons, sports, partying, the gym, skill-based academic institutes, workshops, events, and what else do you want me to cover? Huh?

Bro! Don’t die like that without interacting with anyone; that is going to kill you.

Publish your work on LinkedIn, see if people are there who like your projects and then request them to team up for a hackathon if they request you for the same.

SAY A FRIKIN YES!

Join networking WhatsApp groups and sports networking groups.

Understanding People

You see, you need to network in order to fix your life and sort it all out. Don’t bury yourself in your office/classrooms only.

The world is big, a lot of people will hate you, feel bitter about your growth, fake friendship with you for their needs.

When you realize this, it’s ok to distance yourself from them, block them and even fight with them. But it’s not ok to traumatize yourself by isolation.

That ain’t a solution.

You can do that for 1 day or 2 if you want to rest. But never forever.

When Friends Change

I like to care about you, my dear reader!

I know how much it hurts when your so-called friends are ditching you. But then if you do the same, they react vigorously, intolerant of your growth.

Remember, when you have people like this in your life, this is where life is making you a better human being.

I am no firm believer in God (not an atheist, btw), but God, alias the universe, will definitely give what you want.

If you keep your desires and consistency in appropriate progress, the universe will give you exactly what you want. It is how it has been from generation to generation.

And when you leave your so-called friends who hate you or the other way around, remember that the universe wants you to do that.

Stay away from them.

Solitude vs Loneliness

It’s ok to be in solitude, but it ain’t ok to be lonely. Especially when you are done with your college life and beginning your professional life.

Finally you know that, it is what it is. Just accept some things and move on.

Life is like that, it will hurt and will always hurt till you die.

But remember, I love to say this again and again:

Wherever there is light, there is darkness also.

So please ladies and gentlemen, I wish you have a set of good friends who don’t feel bitter about you or who ain’t toxic with you.

If you really want to protect those so-called “Good terms” with people, it is better to talk less with them, and that is how things should work.

Thank you and have a gr8 day!. Follow and Subscribe to Blaze Mentality to achieve Strength and Greatness.

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