At 3:05 in the Night

Genre: Essay (Creative Nonfiction)

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Most people sleep through it a few wake up at 3:05 and understand something is wrong.

I woke up in the middle of the night for no clear reason and found myself in a strange haze, as if I were asleep and not asleep at the same time, yet clearly aware of the objects in the room, the faint sounds, even the air around me. I did not know what time it was, whether it was already morning or still deep night. Outside it was dark. The room and the things in it were sharply outlined by shadows. Nothing was happening.

I lay there for a few seconds, listening carefully, almost anxiously trying to understand what could have woken me, because I usually wake up at seven without an alarm. There was silence and calm in the room. No sound, no wind outside, no footsteps, no movement. The moon was shining through the window and its light reached into the room, falling on the edge of the bed, the wardrobe, the floor. Everything looked soft, as if in a half dream, but the sleep itself was gone.

I reached for my phone on the bedside table. The screen flashed with a pale blue light. The numbers appeared. 3:05. The very middle of the night. In that moment I became fully aware that my mind was completely awake.

A strange feeling came over me. There was no anxiety, no fear, yet the state itself was difficult to describe. As if I had stepped into another dimension, while inside there was perfect calm and at the same time a light inner tension, as though my body had switched on without any reason. I turned onto one side, then the other. I closed my eyes and began counting slowly to one hundred, to two hundred, to five hundred. Sleep did not come. After some time I would fall into a short doze and then surface again at once, as if someone gently brought me back.

Part of me understood that in the morning I had an important meeting, a serious conference, and I needed to be focused, clear, and rested. The thought pressed against my mind, yet the main thing remained this strange wakefulness at 3:05.

When the first light began to appear, I got up with the quiet understanding that I had not managed to sleep, but at least I deserved a proper breakfast.

The kitchen was still and calm. The refrigerator stood right by the window, and I often found myself pausing there with the door open, watching what was happening outside. That morning I froze the same way, eggs in my hand, looking at the sunrise. I cracked them against the edge of the pan. A short dry sound. The white slowly spread across the surface, turning translucent, then beginning to set, whitening from the edges toward the center. It changed before my eyes, from fluid to firm and matte, while the yolk remained whole, bright, alive. I watched the light steam rise and heard the butter gently hiss along the sides. A large mug of hot, strong coffee stood in front of me, and its warm scent finally brought back the feeling of morning. The actions were simple and clear, as if they gave structure to the day ahead.

The day began as planned, exactly as outlined in the agenda. The conference moved calmly from introductions to presentations. My own talk felt confident and successful. I listened carefully to the other speakers, and everything unfolded the way it was supposed to.

Then my phone screen lit up. A message from an unknown number.

I opened it and read the line quickly, almost without thinking.

“Ekaterina passed away at three in the night.”

For a moment the words did not settle into meaning. They simply existed on the screen, quiet and flat, as if they belonged to someone else’s life. I read the sentence again. And again.

The phrase that caught inside my mind was not even her name.

It was the hour.

Three in the night.

When the conference broke for lunch, I called the number. A young woman answered and introduced herself as Ekaterina’s daughter. Her voice was strained, breaking into tears. She said that around three in the morning Ekaterina opened her eyes, as if for a second she began to struggle for breath, and within moments she was gone. Dying in her sleep. A fortunate way to die, the thought crossed my mind. I asked a few questions, offered my condolences, and ended the call.

The conference continued, but it felt as if it no longer included me. People were speaking, the screen glowed as slides changed, someone asked questions, yet I drifted into a state of detachment and memory, suddenly returning to my own awakening at 3:05 that same night.

I met Ekaterina many years ago in the intensive care unit. I was connected to tubes and IV lines. I heard the steady mechanical sounds, short rhythmic signals, as if something was measuring my pulse and heartbeat. There were footsteps and the voice of a nurse asking someone to remove the tube from my throat. The tube was carefully pulled out, and in that moment I seemed to wake fully, yet there was still no clarity or focus. Everything remained in a haze. When I opened my eyes, I saw only a blurred white background, light, walls, ceiling, but without clear outlines. The world existed around me, but it would not come into focus.

A few minutes later I heard a voice that cut through the white fog.

“Is anyone here? Is there anyone alive here? Answer.”

I tried to say yes, that I was here, and to pronounce my name. It felt as if the words were coming out slowly, stretched, as though passing through layers of filters. Speaking was hard. My tongue would not obey me, my throat hurt, each word required enormous effort. But I said it. I said my name, and then I lost consciousness again.

When I was moved to a regular room and could distinguish faces and even stand up, a woman leaned over me. She was of medium height, about forty five, with strong features and very large, genuinely kind eyes. Dimples appeared in her cheeks every time she smiled, and she smiled almost constantly. Her voice had a slight huskiness, warm and alive. But most of all it was her eyes. They shone with a quiet, steady goodness. There was no rush in her, no tension. She seemed to radiate warmth without words or gestures, simply by being present. Even before she spoke, I felt a calm, positive energy from her.

It turned out she had been walking through the department and the rooms looking for me by my voice. She had remembered it among all the sounds, the machines, the alarms in intensive care.

That was how our friendship began, strange and warm, across distance. Hundreds of kilometers separated us, yet every day we sent each other something, a picture, a postcard, a photo of a cat , a cup of coffee. It was our informal agreement. If one of us did not leave a heart or at least a small reaction, it meant the person was no longer alive.

It became our daily morning ritual of life.

I always answered immediately, no matter how busy I was, never postponing it, because later might not come. On holidays I sent her parcels, chocolate she loved, small souvenirs, just a sign that I remembered.

And now there was a message about her sudden death at three in the night. A strange coincidence. Again I thought about 3:05 and my own awakening. That state of complete clarity, the sense of perfect silence, or perhaps the presence of something or someone.

I do not know what happened at 3:05. I do not know whether there is a connection between people that cannot be measured by distance. A connection born among the beeping of machines and anesthesia, strengthened over years by small hearts and likes on a screen.

Maybe it was a coincidence or maybe it was not but I know one thing for certain. That night I did not sleep .

I was there.