Revenge Never Heals Infidelity

Retaliation destroys peaceful homes

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Revenge and unfaithfulness are the fire 🔥 that destroys a peaceful home once they are allowed into your home. They start very subtly, but they are very eventful and vengeful. Flee from them because they are twin demons that hate your union and peace.

Revenge can't get you even with an unfaithful spouse. It can only get you too subtle or too loud.

Revenge doesn't form and inform you better; rather, it deforms you. It doesn't upgrade you; rather, it would downgrade you.

Revenge over unfaithfulness of one’s spouse is like a sugarcoated poison that would erode values, virtues, and eventually terminate destinies. — #GinuschuksOkonkwo

The Dual Nature of Revenge

Seeking revenge on an unfaithful spouse may seem like a natural response to betrayal, but it's important to recognize that it offers no real resolution or closure. Instead, revenge manifests in two ways: it can be subtle and insidious or loud and aggressive. In either form, it ultimately does not repair the wounds inflicted by infidelity.

Impact on Character

Moreover, acting on revenge doesn't build character; in fact, it distorts who you are as a person. Rather than enhancing your strength or dignity, it can strip you of your integrity and self-respect, leading you down a path that diminishes rather than elevates your life.

Engaging in revenge for a partner's unfaithfulness is likened to consuming a seemingly sweet poison. While it may offer a fleeting sense of satisfaction, it gradually erodes your core values and virtues. In the long run, this toxic mindset threatens to derail your future, obstructing your personal growth and happiness.

A Call to Parents and Childcare Givers

The foregoing discussion is good and apt for parents and childcare givers, for it is #ParentingTuesday where and when searchlight is beamed on our duties and responsibilities as nurturers and groomers of tender hearts for the future. Our children and wards are copycats and mimickers of what they see us do. Therefore, we ought to be careful with what we say and or do before our children and wards because:

1). Consistency is Key:

Our words are irrelevant if they can't be correlated with our actions;

2). Comprehensive Communication:

Our speeches go beyond what we say to how, when, where, and why we say what we say. Also, our gesticulations, facial expressions, and general body language mean a lot to our speeches, especially before our children and wards; and

3). Visual Learning:

We should know and note that research has shown that pictures register easily in our minds, especially in the minds of children and youths, more than words because of their tender hearts and the captivating nature of pictures.

Parents and childcare givers should know that they have a foundational and fundamental role in educating and modelling real-life experiences of family life to their children and wards. This is one of the key reasons why you have appeared in life scenes before them. Hence, be readily willing to guide, lead, impact, and influence them and you would be happy for these.

Reflective Questions for Consideration

Having gone through the dangers and destructive tendencies of the twin demons of revenge and unfaithfulness as well as cautions to parents and childcare givers, we have come to the moment of reflection on our own experiences:

1). Envisioning the Ideal Family:

What were your views about a standard and enviable family you would want to raise before you were married to your spouse? Has anything changed about your original master plan and/or view?

2). Discussing Family Values:

Have you had the opportunity to discuss with your spouse your dreamed family values and virtues and the expected impact and influence you would want them to have on your children and wards, at the onset of your marriage, before the arrival of the children, and now that the children have arrived? How far have you fared in actualizing your dreams?

3). Navigating Challenges:

Have you experienced revenge and unfaithfulness in your union with your partner? Have you resolved it or how do you intend to resolve it?

4). Key Takeaways:

What have you learned from today's discussion? Feel free to share your takeaways, views, and suggestions. Your perspective would help to deepen the conversation.

Additionally, I encourage you to share and repost this message to reach like-minded people in your networks and groups for further enrichment and understanding of these critical issues.

Remember And Note

When issues affecting couples in marital union are raised, they are for both the married and the yet-to-be-married. This is because research has shown that experience is not the best teacher, but wisdom. For as it is written, ‘Wisdom is the principal thing, and in all our getting we should get understanding.’ “For by wisdom a house is built,” according to the scripture.

Furthermore, remember that poison is poison no matter how appealing its packaging might appear. Hence, flee the allure of revenge and unfaithfulness by daily reinforcing the ingredients of first love that brought you to God and your spouse.

Stay blessed, remain blessed, daily sharing what would bond you together with your spouse, your children, and your wards. And let your today be better and greater than yesterday. Have a pleasant day and enjoy it.

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I am Ginuschuks Okonkwo- Hyginus Okwuchukwu Okonkwo

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