5 Cs which are Damaging your Relationship Silently

Have you ever thought that what is killing our relationship over time? What has gone wrong? Who is responsible for the toxicity in relationship? If we do not know these on time, we are losing our relationship.

Let us know what are 5 Cs which are damaging our relationship…

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As we grow old in any relationship, we take it for granted and over time we do not realize what mistakes we are making in our relationship.

Understanding 5 Cs will help…

1.Communication: This is the most important for continuing a relationship for long run in a healthy way. We stop communicating and assume that our partner has understood without saying a word. We are wrong, we are different human being we cannot guess or imagine what others have in their mind, when we are not saying it in correct way.

2. Care: In the initial stage of relationship, we take care, pamper, show love very frequently, but as we grow old in the relationship, we either stop or do very less frequently to our partners. This is second C which is creating distance between partners and thus damaging the relationship silently.

3. Curiosity: When we are a new in relationship, we are very much curious to know about each other. But this changes when we think we know our partner very well and there is no need to know more and we stop being curious about each other. But, we forget, we are human being, we are evolving each day, we change with time, we do not remain same as we were in our youth. Here, we are making mistake by not being curious about each other in later years of relationship, thereby creating distance in relationship and damaging it in long run.

4. Courtesy: In every relationship, there has to be some courtesy in behavior which has to be shown while talking to each other. We cannot talk rude to our partner, just because we are old now, and we know each other and so we can behave any way we like. No! this is again one of the mistakes which is ruining or damaging our relationship. Without respects and curtsey in conversation there cannot be proper communication. So we have to adopt courteous behavior in our relationship as well.

5 Contact: We may think that contact is for distance relationship, but it is necessary even we are living at same home. Both partners go for work and they come in the late evening, so, contacting when they get time from their work is very essential. Remember when we were in initial stage of our relationship, don’t we used to keep chatting and making calls very frequently? So, why not we are doing same as we grow old in relationship? I admit, that our work responsibility grows and we again take it for granted that we are eventually meeting at home. But, believe me or not, it creates distance in relationship and damage it in long run again.

If in the case, one partner is working outside and other is homemaker, then also, they should find time to chat or message few times just to keep relationship fresh.

Final Thought

Understanding and incorporating these 5 Cs in your relationship will keep your relationship, respectful, loving, full of care, warm, happy and long lasting. Never make mistake by taking your relationship for granted, give it required love, care respect and follow 5Cs to keep it live. Relationship is precious so, do take effort to save and care for it. It takes years to build a relationship so, do not lose it by making these 5Cs mistake.

Remember…Silence Kills