“Why Its Okay To Lose Yourself Over Something Or Someone”

In my life of was 19 years i have always felt lost but never hopless over thing not because i have never lost myself over sometrhing or someone but but becasue when ever i have ever lost , i have always found this hidden new me and grown soo much in my life morally , emotionally and physically . That when I lose or fail in my life I dont bother to thing baput it that much because losing is not about not having something you once had , Its about you making space for something new to come and something new you learned which builds you up in your life and develops your character .

For once in my life I thought that I have finally found A guy who would never leave me and guess what did eventually did leave me and choose something which was temporary in his life and made me vulnerable to such level that I lost myself again and then there was a huge space in my life and it made me feel so empty and hollow from inside , I felt LOST again

But then I found a new me…..or more like I realized a new me and then the emptiness and the feeling of being lost was GONE . I realized that I have so much time now for myself and I can do so much and achieve so much and life is never gonna end if we are LOST , It is actually an opportunity to be someone new and fill that emptiness

So at the end being lost is not equal to losing something you never had but its the ability to find something new