Signs of a Karmic Relationship

Have you ever been in a relationship either romantic or platonic, or even a friendship that seemed so good but so bad at the same time? You feel as if you’d be better off without this person but simultaneously you feel as if you just can’t get enough of this person. Also, having this person in your life brings turmoil, havoc and drama amongst you & your loved ones; who are probably telling you this person is no good for you. Moreover, you feel as if there is type of soul connection between the two of you.

If this resonated you probably are dealing with a Karmic Relationship. A Karmic is a soul that you’ve shared a past life with, in that lifetime there was some type of karma accumulated between you two. By the laws of the Universe, karma must be cleared for your soul to raise it’s vibration and ascend to higher realms. If the karma isn’t cleared in one lifetime then our soul is required to come back to earth and work through the karmic lesson under a Karmic contract, which is destined before incarnation.

A karmic relationship is very confusing to say the least. You feel as if you have to constantly please them, in order to keep the peace between you two. They make it seem as if being with them is the best thing for you and that you don’t deserve to be with anyone else because no one else will treat you better than the way they treat you. However, the cruel irony is that the karmic doesn’t even give you the treatment you deserve. It’s like they give you $10 pretending that they gave you $100. Just feeding you crumbs to keep you around. They know they can do more for you but refuse to. A karmic partner or friend is very self absorbed and selfish, everything is always about them and everything has to benefit them. Their needs are put before yours. The focus is never on you unless they are gaslighting you.

Here are 10 signs that the person that came to mind while reading this is your Karmic partner.

1. You are very compatible

You and this person share a lot in common, you share similar interests and tend to get along and bond with those interests. You both have similar personality traits and even compliment each other in such a way.

2. They feel addictive

For some reason you feel as if you cannot be away from this person, you want to be around them all the time, something about their energy feels comforting. They are like a drug, not really good for you but used as a way to escape your reality. Despite the drama that occurs between you two it’s difficult to decide to walk away altogether. You feel like you need them in your life.

3. Have similar backgrounds

You and the karmic share commonalities within your upbringing. You both may have been raised within the same socioeconomic status, have the same religious backgrounds which creates a sense of security and acceptance in the relationship. You even share similar traumas thus creating a trauma bond.

4. They mirror your flaws

A karmic partner is meant to shed the light on the deepest parts within yourself that need healing and growth. They are meant to show you what you need to work on through mirroring. Things that make you tick about them is often something that you do yourself. Your insecurities and flaws are thrown in your face when dealing with a karmic partner because they are the catalyst for your spiritual growth; you will eventually outgrow them.

5. You are Codependent on each other

You are in the relationship more because of a need and less because of a want. Whether the need is financial, sexual or emotional, you two feel as if you need each other to survive. You tend to be living in survival mode when in relation with a karmic partner.

6. Disagreements leads to Arguments

Any minor disagreement can turn quickly into a heated argument creating unnecessary tension. Especially when discussing issues or behaviors that are adding toxicity the relationship. Differences of opinion aren’t discussed healthily because there is a need to be right with a point to prove.

7. They are a distraction

This person adds so much negativity and confusion to your life that you tend to waste your time & energy dealing with the emotions that come with it. They do not fulfill your soul but instead just fill an empty void. Having this person in your life holds the place for someone better for you to enter.

8. They keep you stagnant

A karmic relationship keeps you in a repeated cycle, going around in circles but never getting anywhere. They support your comfort zone, not your growing zone.

9. They feel like a Soulmate

You feel like you have a soul connection with this person. They feel like a soulmate because they actually are a soulmate, but they are a karmic soulmate. The main reason why people find it hard to leave this person because of that soul tie feeling with them.

10. They Gaslight you

This person often belittles you and your experiences. They do not take accountability for their wrong doings toward you, they flip the focus back on you when they are confronted. You do not feel safe enough to share your feelings about how they treat you because they will ridicule you. You don’t feel heard. They even compete with you, with a karmic it isn’t a partnership because they don’t view you as a teammate but as competition.

A karmic relationship is not meant to last. You live and learn from this experience and you are better off without them in your life. They stay in your life until you’ve learned your lesson and make the decision to leave. It is normal to grieve the loss of this relationship because of all the emotional investment, time and energy that went into it. Walking away is prominent for your spiritual growth.