Just My Thoughts On…

Dominant and Submissive Role Play

Most definitely there is a kink or fetish for practically everything you can think of. I’ve noticed that as more new sexual trends get introduced, other kinks are being practiced by misguided, misinformed adults. For instance, the role of a Dominant and a Submissive. Far too many are playing pretend Dom and Sub with no real knowledge of what it entails and the responsibility it holds. I have come across “Dominant Men” on websites that come across as if they see being dominant as an opportunity to beat down, degrade and own. On the opposite spectrum, there are “Male Slaves” offering to succumb to such wicked chores of all day pussy eating. The poor unfortunate slave that has to do that, oh dear.

I never seeked Dom/Sub play and the times I found myself in D/S situations, it always happened naturally and with people that I felt safe with and they felt safe with me. I have a natural dominant personality that is carried through with care and concern. Also, when it comes down to the roles and who is who….is the Dom truly the one in control? Well yes and no…the Sub has the control. The Sub decides what they will endure, not endure, and experience. In my opinion, without the consent and pre-discussed limits of the Sub the playtime just appears to display more on the abusive end and not sexual pleasure for both parties.