THE FOUNTAIN OF CO-EXISTENCE:

The Treasure Principles of Trusting and Hoping.

The Treasure Principles of Trusting and Hoping.

We all at some point come to the stand still when we question the reality of the fountain of life: What:

• Is the meaning of the value of trust after betrayal to us? 1Is the meaning of the value of hope after betrayal to us?

why do:

• We have to hope that all is going to be great once again after we face seemingly unending tribulations in our lives in this dreadful world?

Or:

• Will we have to trust people again after their betrayal?
• So as we dive into this reality that we constantly face every time and again, we need to first bring forth, what do these principle values of trusting, hoping and love mean to us after we suffer or feel betrayed at some point in life?

Lets take a deep thought of the meaning of trust from different perspectives of life.

The Three Natural world known perspectives:

Firstly, lets take a look at the toddler’s perspective as the kind of belief in the person who throws it in the air that will catch it and not allow it to fall.

Secondly, there is perspective of a teenager where that they do have that have one friend ‘call them best friend’ who they tell their secrets and share moments that they cannot share with anyone easily.

Then finally, there is the adult perspective of trust as an act of courage of extending a hand to other people knowing well that there are potential choices of betrayal to come.

Individual Perspectives:

In Dr.Jordan.B.Peterson’s lens, trust is the fundamental social substrate and without it, all interactions degenerate into a costly exhausting dominance of battles.

Peterson describes trust as the voluntary placement of yourself within a hierarchy where you acknowledge someone’s character and submit to that structure with the expectation of benevolent reciprocity.

As from my side, I do define trust as act of extending a hand of honesty, sincerity and truth to others while with realization of the tyranny of the world and the catastrophe of nature which is almost similar to that of Dr. Jordan.B.Peterson.

Although,It is to note that the first two of the natural world perspective involve at some point a trait tyranny of naivety. This is as there is an act of stupidity as the trust form is based on naivety and emotions with no or less logical thinking for the most part of the principle.

THE REALITY BUILD IN OUR MINDS and THE QUESTIONS THAT COME UP TO BE ANSWERED:

How do our minds internalise this notion of betrayal after it comes in?

How do our minds shift and navigate this negative complexity?

I do take the same idea to the roads of reality towards naivety trusting as a form of stupid act because it is does show that one lacks the sense that they will get bit and will be traumatized at the end, as Dr. Jordan B. Peterson did note in his one of his lectures about betrayal and trusting.

He might frame this as a confrontation with your own shadow as the part of you that was perhaps too naive, too weak or too ignorant to see the betrayal coming.

But we ought to remember that, trust must be built slowly through consistent actions, reliability and integrity over time.

Hoping, in this context of principle values of life, is the emotional investment in a future with or because of a person. Further more hope can defined as a belief that something that you want to come to pass or happen.

For Dr.J.B.Peterson, hope is the commitment to work and strive towards a meaningful future, despite the suffering and chaos inherent in life.

It is the realization that proper engagement with the world can produce a positive outcome even and definitely in the face of uncertainty.

We all do hope that the relationship, we are in ought and truly grows with and they will be there for us and the plans shared come to fruition.

We have to note that hope is the fuel that keeps you engaged and optimistic.

Betrayal is the injection of chaos into the very place you had established order and safety.

It is the infamous moment when the circumscribed world of reliable expectation has been shattered and the map you used to navigate the world is violently shown to be false.

Betrayal can define as violent rupture of the trust and the shattering of the hope extended to people.

Or it can be defined as the hurting someone who trusts you as you are not being honest or loyal.

Dr.Peterson frames betrayal as the ultimate evil. The willing sacrifice of the good for personal advantage or out of resentment.

It usually occurs in the a notion of a through of recklessness acts or in a deliberate move violates the shared understanding and shatters the fundamental expectations that do comes with the vest trust extended to them.

It is a profound disappointment highlighting that the trust vested was extended to a wrong person.

Well let take now a deep understanding of the some of the questions we do ask ourselves:

What is the meaning of the value of trust after betrayal to us?

The value of trust after betrayal come in is one of the most complex and profound human reckons every faced.

It does transform from a naive aspect of life into a conscious, costly with powerful choices. This is the process of slaying the dragon not by forgetting it but by integrating its reality into your being.

The value of trust comes to no longer be in the fragile state but in a reconstructive matter attempted.

After betrayal, trust becomes a rare and carefully allocated resource to do share. This is as its no longer given at a free basis role or promises alone as its value skyrockets due to its form of extending it in terms of consistency, serviceability with observable actions over time.

This is as we learn to trust behaviours not just words so as to protect ourselves from ensuring that the trust we do extend to other is done wisely even if it fewer.

You ought not to offer the highest level of vulnerability to a stranger. You should start at the bottom and trust is earned through incremental testing.

It is to noted that trust after betrayal is more valuable because it seems to be more real and valuable as it is no longer built on naivety of assumptions but a rather smaller sturdier shelters of efforts, proof and head nosed with clear eyed intentions.

What Is the meaning of the value of hope after betrayal to us?

Hope becomes a conscious belief that suffering can be transcended and that life can be improved to become self aware. It is not a feeling but a commitment to working towards a better future that is armed with the hard won wisdom of your past suffering.

Well ask ourselves:

Will I ever trust again anyone?

Or will I ever show up for anyone like I did after this disappointment?

You ought to choose to trust again for your own well-being because a life without any trust is a full prison of isolation. But do know that you will never trust in the exact same way and that is your strength that you do posses. You will not show up with the same unchecked abandon built on an untested assumption of safety.

Instead, you show up with even greater depth and intentions because you have built a strong gate and a door with a huge lock. You will show up not because you assume it’s safe rather because you have decided this person is worth the risk for again.

The person you become is the one who has known betrayal but chooses cautious. You become a fortified one. You emerge not as the innocent who was burned rather as the dangerous individual who has been disciplined by tragedy. Your hope is no longer a fragile wish but a willful movement towards meaning bearing the scars of your past as proof that you can endure and rebuild.