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Growing Apart? Cheating Is Still a Choice

Having less time together is never an excuse to cheat.

Soledad Hernandez · 2026-07-29 01:42 · 0 claps · 1.2 min read
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Growing Apart? Cheating Is Still a Choice

Having less time together is never an excuse to cheat.

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Is cheating justifiable due to a lack of time with each other?

You and your partner barely see each other anymore. The house feels quieter. Conversations shrink to logistics. And somewhere in that loneliness, a dangerous thought creeps in: “Would anyone really blame me?”

But here is the hard truth—nothing can justify cheating. Not the distance. Not the silence. Not the busy season.

Although the lack of time you spend with each other is a concern in your relationship, you can choose to cooperate with your partner in finding a solution that works for both of you.

Instead of sneaking around and using that time to see another person, focus on fixing your relationship with your partner.

Moreover, your excuse for cheating cannot justify the hurt it will cause. It shows that you’re only thinking of yourself. If you resort to cheating, you might as well get out of the relationship and date someone new.

You and your partner are a team and you need to commit to your responsibilities. This means addressing the problems in your relationship and coming up with solutions together.

Let your relationship end on good terms rather than making unjustifiable excuses.

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