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The People Pleaser: Living in a World Full of Egoism

You feel alone, as though no one understands you.

Mira Aprianti · 2026-07-07 03:56 · 0 claps · 1.3 min read
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The People Pleaser: Living in a World Full of Egoism

You feel alone, as though no one understands you.

Photo by Timothy Brandt on Unsplash

Photo by Timothy Brandt on Unsplash

How is your day? Are you still living inside the box and never trying to get out of it? Do people judge you harshly?

You think that the people around you could become your enemies in the future. They never seem to care for you the way you care for them. The world doesn’t seem fair to you, yet you still have to live in it. You also realize that no one will ever know you as deeply as you know yourself.

Sometimes, people’s ego hurts your mental well-being. They do whatever they want and say whatever comes to mind without considering how their words might affect others. Their actions and words hurt you, but you still smile in front of them. You accept everything they do, and later you hate yourself for never speaking up or standing up for yourself.

Eventually, you begin to hate yourself. You blame the world. You blame God. You wonder why you are still alive in this world.

You feel alone, as though no one understands you.

But the truth is that you need to change your mindset. Your perspective on the world, on humanity, and on the way you choose to live your life.

If other people judge you or never see you as ‘human’, just let them go. Find people who genuinely care about you. Not everyone has the same perspective.

There are millions of people in this world. Why stay trapped by the opinions of a few and let them make you miserable?

Find your joy and heal yourself.


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