APPRECIATE DEEP TALKS

A horror story for introverts

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I know, I know

The topic is a little off putting, but, hear me out!

We have all been through a situation, where we wanted to pour our hearts out, wanted to talk and get something off of our chest, which weighs us down and influences the mindset we are in.

But, we never do! We never talk it out with anybody, because, we are all to proud to talk about it.

Being vulnerable is considered weak in this society.

What is the purpose of sharing lives with the same species as us, if we even fail to even show some vulnerability?

I am a person who prefer deep talks over small talks anyday! And I do feel vulnerable, yes. I feel, talking my heart out may turn out funny, or the receiving end person might not take me seriously and judge me for who I am. And yes, I am scared of it too! But, to be honest, who cares 🤷

But look on the bright side, if you open up, if we stand vulnerable, it pushes the right person to get vulnerable and share their thoughts too! It’s a win-win!

Chuck the fact that some are gonna be reluctant and wouldn’t reciprocate, but, the ones that do reciprocate — this is gonna change the course of the relationship with that person!

The ones who get vulnerable and share their deep thoughts too, they are the ones that matter! Your relationship is now more than mere social contact.

So, here is what I say, Screw small talks

Screw - ‘ Hey, how are you? ‘

Screw talking about the Netflix series you are watching, Screw talking about the match that went on yesterday.

Human brains processes 400 billion bits per second

There are over hundreds of galaxies out there, and all you want is to talk about the weather?

Let’s have deep conversations, better ones

Let’s be human, let’s have each other’s backs!

Let’s live and love how it’s meant to be ❤️