FATHERS; THE MISUNDERSTOOD HEROES IN THE SOCIETY

Those who never stop loving you

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Sometimes, we don’t realize what marvellous blessings are we provided with.

Parents, are one of them.

I literally don’t get the idea of how people have begin to leave their parents by themselves to old homes?

How could they abandon the people who went tearful when sending us away from home; our first day to school?

Am I really soft hearted or those people don’t have a heart that cares?

Not all parents are the one who express their love to the children by giving hugs and kissing. By calling them ‘my dear’.

Each parent, especially fathers, have their own way. Some are too impacted by their own past experiences that they tend to build a peaceful life for their children and through all this, they sometimes forget to tell their kids that how much they love them

And kids? They forget everything in a minute. They forget that they were the one who used to bring us all the wealth we wanted. That when they were sleeping in their beds, relaxed; at mid-night, someone would creep in their bedrooms to see if they were okay and a weak smile would spread on their face when they would find them, snoring. Ahh….aren’t we, children, too unfair?

Those fathers who spend their whole lives on us, working and working without having a opportunity to ever express themselves are treated as useless garbage, years later.

Bonding with your Mother is something really different because we have a whole day with her; but fathers…?

Why don’t kids realize that there fathers are humans as well? Humans are not perfect. They may commit mistakes like not having interest in the activities their children are involved in. Can’t you ignore them? Just ignore them and instead be thankful to them for what they did for you. What you are today is what your parents made you.

But maybe, you won’t realize it today.

When one day, you would lose them and you yourself become a parent, you would surely awe at your dad that how he used to shoulder this bread-winner responsibility by his own without ever uttering a word of complaint.

You all are aware of that extremely wrong concept in our society regarding men don’t cry. Just because of this, the fathers, sons, brothers in the society grow up to be really sensitive and personal about expressing their emotions. They conclude their griefs and pain just to themselves.

We don’t even get the tiniest idea of the tornado that’s swerving in their minds, when they come home after a tiring day, smile pasted on their faces.

If I talk about Qura’an; Qura’an itself commands us to love your parents and control your liking for your children.

That’s because the love for children is already stored in parents’ heart to the fact, that people can do anything wrong, just for the sake of keeping them happy but loving your parents to the depth of your soul is harder, sometimes.

However, that’s what they deserve.

Allah orders justice. Love your Parents, your fathers, and earn the key to Paradise! ♡