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The Stoics’ View on the Brutality of Drinking

Time to end the madness

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You can keep pushing.

You can try to force your way through the exhaustion, the brain fog, and the grumpiness. While everybody else looks alive, you can keep walking around dead behind the eyes — a zombie in waiting.

Or, you can do something radical.

You can start looking after yourself.

Probably not the advice you were expecting from a self-improvement article, but somebody has to tell you what alcohol is actually doing to you.

Life is short. It is far too precious to hand over to a substance that slowly drains your energy, your health, your relationships, your ambition, and your peace of mind.

But I get why we do it. The alcohol industry and modern society have conditioned us to believe that life is incomplete without a glass in hand.

• Want to impress people? Buy expensive alcohol.
• Want to appear sophisticated? Learn your wines.
• Want to be social, confident, and fun? Drink.

Every major milestone is tied to a bottle. Champagne for success. A drunken eighteenth birthday. Christmas soaked in wine. New Year’s Eve drowned in beer, spirits, and popping corks — where people literally raise a poison chalice to toast to “health and happiness.”

It becomes so normal that questioning it makes you look like the weird one.

But Seneca questioned it nearly two thousand years ago.

“Drunkenness is nothing but voluntary madness.” — Seneca

Those words still ring true today. Because when you step back and look at it objectively, only a madman repeatedly harms himself. Only a madman spends his hard-earned money to destroy his own body. Only a madman sacrifices real-world relationships to preserve his relationship with a neurotoxin.

Yet, alcohol remains one of the few addictions people will passionately defend while it destroys them from the inside out.

The Seduction of the “Temporary Fix”

To be fair, the Stoics understood why we drink. They weren’t idiots. Seneca himself wrote:

*“Wine washes away our worries, rinses the mind from the bottom and, just as it cures some diseases, so it brings sadness to an end.”*

And that is exactly why alcohol is so seductive. For a fleeting moment, it actually works.

It dulls your anxiety. It softens your loneliness. It blurs your regret and silences the relentless noise in your head.

But that relief is short-lived.

Alcohol does not end sadness; it merely postpones it. And when the bill comes due the next morning, the sadness returns heavier than before.

The trap is subtle: the more you drink, the less you feel. But you cannot selectively numb emotion. When you numb the pain, you also numb your joy, your clarity, your ambition, and your capacity for deep connection.

You aren’t just numbing suffering. You are numbing yourself.

As Seneca wisely observed: “The worse a man becomes, the less he feels it.”

Becoming Fully Awake

I look back at parts of my own life and think: what a waste. I spent too many years handing over my potential to the bottle. More fool me.

But you cannot turn the clock back. You can only decide what you are going to do right now.

In a culture completely obsessed with escape, the most radical, rebellious thing you can do is choose to become fully awake again.

The Sober Revolution

There’s never been a better time to join the sober revolution.

If I can quit after decades of drinking, then so can you.

I’m not special; I don’t possess extraordinary willpower. I got lucky, I was in the right place at the right time, doing a health programme and surrounded by people who were also giving up. But none of that would have mattered if I hadn’t made a crystal clear decision to quit.

Make that decision and join the sober revolution today. Reclaim your health and your freedom from alcohol.

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