Your non-sexual moments are the key to a good sex life.
It can be frustrating when you’re not getting what you want in the bedroom, and if your partner has a lower sex drive, you may think…
Your non-sexual moments are the key to a good sex life.
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It can be frustrating when you’re not getting what you want in the bedroom, and if your partner has a lower sex drive, you may think putting a little pressure on them will change things. But that approach will only make it worse.
Instead, sex toy company Adam & Eve’s resident sexologist Dr. Jenni Skyler says you should leverage the non-sexual moments to improve the sexual ones.
One thing she suggests is finding connection and validation when you have your clothes on in order to strengthen your bond. Also, you can use non-sexual moments to talk about your needs, creating a low-pressure environment.
“In a non-sexual moment, describe and name what sex means to you and why it’s important,” said Skyler. “Also, ask what they might be needing that might be going missing.”
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