“You were meant to be alone the day you were born.”
Don’t you ever get tired of yearning? If the answer is yes, then listen.
“You were meant to be alone the day you were born.”
Don’t you ever get tired of yearning? If the answer is yes, then listen.
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Don’t you ever get tired of yearning? If the answer is yes, then listen.
From the very first day of your life, were you meant to be alone?
Right? But you know, we are the same. I have yearned as much as I could. I yearned to be heard, to be loved — but the world refused every time, leaving me alone and desperate. So, one day, I finally stopped. I was done with myself. I tried to understand: why are people like this?
But do you know who the biggest fool is in this situation? It’s me. It’s you. The ones who run after others. We have to look closer at the things that deserve our attention, and we have to do it urgently. Tell me, how can we be with others when we were born to live alone? It is a simple fact; that is what our nature is. How can we exist in opposition to our own nature?
I have learned to stand and walk alone, and you must, too. Otherwise, the world will leave you as hollow as it possibly can. I recently came across a post on Instagram that read something like this:
“Never expect too much from anyone, because this ‘too much’ can hurt too much.”
That is the reason I started expecting very little — almost nothing — from anyone. You have to be like that. Do not expect much, because it only hurts when the results don’t favor us.
But wait, a thought might follows: we are humans. We are wired for love and affection. I’ve remember a line from BlackPink’s song “Lovesick Girls” and it literally connects directly to our reality, but it aches me too.
“We were born to be alone But why we still looking for love?”
This is true, and I have accepted it. But listen: you can be loved by your own self. You can feel happy by yourself, loving who you are by doing what your heart wants.
You can be wired to yourself — right?
It is much better than yearning for someone who wasn’t really yours, or someone who betrayed you. Listen: you are always meant to be yours. Live by this quote:
“You were meant to be alone the day you were born.”
So, why not wash away our tears, lighten our hearts, and start living our lives purely for ourselves?
Listen again, softly. If you ever feel lonely, or feel a yearning ache in your heart, remember that you aren’t alone — because you are with yourself. Forget me and forget my words, but never forget your rights and yourself.
Please, don’t hesitate to comment below if you have any questions. Don’t feel strange; I am just like you — someone who feels lonely and questions herself, but who has finally found a light in the dome of darkness.
~Ammara Daria…
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