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You are not the same person anymore

Should you be?

Tuba Bashir in Modern Women · 2026-07-14 19:37 · 53 claps · 0.8 min read
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You are not the same person anymore

Should you be?

Photo by Ivana Cajina on Unsplash

Photo by Ivana Cajina on Unsplash

They're mad at you.


You set the boundary,

You call out the lies,

You recognize the gaslighting,

You remember the humiliation,

The pain you bear still haunts you,

You still have shivering episodes to remember the pain you bear and the silence you choose.

You still mourn the version you buried.


You are not the same person anymore,

Should you!


No, not at all.


You paid the toll of that chapter,

You stood where the shadows end — your deathbed — your unconscious mind — and your guilt.

You buried your version to move on.


You unapologetically choose yourself,

You embrace your scars,

You are grateful for the “clarity”, and

You are building a new life, where your peace is non-negotiable.


So yes, you are not the same person anymore, and you should not be.

Move ahead with me on a journey towards healing.

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