SELF-AWARENESS

The Reason I Got Kicked Out of a Movie Theater at Age Twelve

I really should have stayed home that day. Or at least gone without my friends

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I was about 12 years old, and I had a few friends both in school and outside of it. This was 1978 Budapest, and I had two best friends. One of them was our neighbor, Gabriella — she lived right next to us. She was two years older than me, which at that age felt like a lot.

She had lots of cute freckles covering her face, long brownish hair, and fair skin. She was taller than me and already starting to develop, which at that age seemed incredibly grown-up to me. I was still very skinny and completely flat-chested. She was already interested in boys.

Naturally, I was too, but not like her. She and her friends — her classmates, girls with more experience, some of them already very developed and very confident — fascinated me, and I always had a blast with that crowd. I was the little one tagging along, and I loved every minute of it.

I didn’t really have a father growing up. Neither did Gabriella — she was raised by her mother alone, just like me. Her mom was a heavy drinker, always working or out somewhere, so we spent a lot of time at her place doing things we probably weren’t supposed to do. We weren’t bad kids. We were just… unsupervised.

Now, my grandpa visited my father in California almost every summer, and on one of those trips, he brought me back a coat. A white coat — beautiful, beautiful white — with a hoodie, fake fur around the collar and along the shoulders. On the bottom hem, little red flowers were stitched in. It was the kind of coat that made every kid on the block stop and stare. Every time I wore it, I felt like a princess. Nobody had anything like it. That coat came from California, and you could tell.

One day, Gabriella decided we should go to the movie theater. We went fairly often — back then it was mostly Hungarian films, Russian and East German movies, and other European films. American movies existed, but they were rare. We checked our coats at the coat check — that was just what you did. You handed over your coat, they gave you a little ticket, and after the movie, you picked it up on the way out.

We found our seats. The theater wasn’t very full. The ladies who worked there — always the same ones, older women, very proper — had shown us to our seats with their little flashlights and then gone back to sit near the entrance, the way they usually did.

About twenty minutes into the movie, Gabriella reached into her blouse and pulled out a pack of cigarettes.

I looked at her.

“What are you doing?” I whispered.

She shrugged.

“I figured we could smoke.”

I looked around. The theater was dim, it wasn’t crowded, and the ladies were nowhere in sight. Why not, I thought. We were twelve and fourteen years old, sharing a cigarette in a Budapest movie theater in 1978. Completely reasonable.

We didn’t even finish it.

Illi appeared.

Illi was one of the theater ladies. We knew her well — she was actually very nice, but she was also large and had the kind of voice that meant business. She materialized out of the dark right next to our seats.

“Get out. Right now. What do you think you’re doing? I am going to tell your mother.”

And that was it. I panicked. I jumped up, pushed past her, and ran. Straight out of the theater, down the street, all the way home.

My mom wasn’t home yet. She always worked late — she was a bartender and had to support us. Only my grandma was home. I didn’t say a word, but of course, she noticed something was wrong. I ended up telling her what happened, and she just kept shaking her head, saying something about my friends and asking what in the world I was thinking.

She put me to bed, but I couldn’t fall asleep. I kept tossing and turning, thinking about that coat and wondering what I was going to tell my mom.

My mom and I had a very special bond. I never lied to her, and I could always tell her anything.

I wasn’t really afraid of getting punished. I was more afraid that I had disappointed her.

My mom came home later that night, and eventually I told her everything that had happened.

She wasn’t happy about it, but the next day she agreed to go back to the theater and get my coat for me.

And she did.

I loved that coat and wore it for a couple more years after that. Every time I put it on, I still felt like the fanciest kid in Budapest walking around in my California princess coat.

But I definitely learned something from that whole experience:

Crime is stressful, especially when there’s a coat check involved.

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