Reconciliation Quiz: Calculate Your Chances of Getting Back Together With Your Ex

Wondering What Your Odds Are of Getting Back Together? Take This Quiz to Find Out!

People ask me questions like this all the time:

“Can we get back together?”

“What are the chances we’ll reconcile?”

“Is my ex trying to reconnect?”

Here’s the thing — I can’t give you a solid answer based on these questions alone.

Let me be clear: whether you’ll get back together isn’t about some single behavior or sign. It’s complicated. You’ve got people who haven’t spoken to their ex in years. Someone whose ex is already planning their wedding. Someone who got blocked and deleted on every platform. Someone who had a clean, drama-free breakup and still hangs out with their ex regularly. You think these situations have the same odds of working out?

As a professional relationship coach, I need to be honest with you. I don’t want to give you false hope, and I don’t want you to miss out on real love just because you didn’t understand your situation.

So here’s the deal — the best way to get clarity is to book a one-on-one session with me. I’ll analyze your specific situation, calculate your actual chances, and if there’s hope, I’ll create a customized game plan just for you. Save time, save stress, and get results that actually target your relationship.

But hey, if you want to assess things yourself first, take this quiz below. Answer honestly based on your situation and see what you score.

1. Who pursued whom in the beginning?

A. I pursued them (1 point)

B. Friends first, then it turned into something more (2 points)

C. They pursued me (3 points)

2. How long were you together?

A. Less than a year (1 point)

B. 1–2 years (2 points)

C. More than 2 years (3 points)

3. How long has it been since the breakup?

A. Over a year (1 point)

B. 6 months to a year (2 points)

C. 3–6 months (3 points)

D. Less than 3 months (4 points)

4. How’s your relationship with your ex’s friends?

A. Pretty much nonexistent (1 point)

B. We have close mutual friends (2 points)

5. Was the breakup over something fundamental — a dealbreaker?

A. Yes (1 point)

B. No (2 points)

6. Has your ex reached out to you since the breakup?

A. No (1 point)

B. Yes (2 points)

7. Did they publicly announce the breakup?

A. Yes (1 point)

B. No (2 points)

8. Did you chase after them after the breakup?

A. Yes (1 point)

B. No (2 points)

9. How does your ex act toward you now?

A. Blocked and deleted me everywhere (1 point)

B. Ghosts all my messages (2 points)

C. Responds sometimes but stays distant (3 points)

D. Reaches out proactively and chats warmly (4 points)

10. Who invested more in the relationship?

A. Me (1 point)

B. Pretty equal (2 points)

C. My ex (3 points)

11. Is your ex seeing someone new?

A. Yes (1 point)

B. No new partner, but they have close friends of the opposite sex (2 points)

C. No (3 points)

12. Do you still have opportunities to interact?

A. No (1 point)

B. Yes (2 points)

13. How serious are you about winning them back?

A. Depends on their attitude (1 point)

B. Not sure if I even want to (2 points)

C. Absolutely want to make it work (3 points)

Add up your score and send me your answers. I’ll tell you if you’ve got a shot at reconciliation. Plus, I can do a deep-dive analysis and help you find your breakthrough moment!

Looking forward to hearing from you.