Years of Securing Corporate Systems… Then I Noticed the iPad at Home

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I’ve spent years as an IT Director, locking down infrastructure, securing endpoints, enforcing access controls, and managing identities across our firm. But recently, I realised something embarrassing. I’d done all that professionally… Yet at home, the place that actually matters most, I’d pretty much dropped the ball.

This post is about fixing that. About taking the same discipline and tools I use at work - things like MDM, supervision, and sensible content filtering -and applying them to family life. Because if we can protect company data, surely we can protect our kids’ devices too.

Building a “Family MDM”

I wanted something simple, reliable, and sustainable-a home version of the enterprise environment I manage at work. Here’s how I went about it.

First, I used Apple Configurator to supervise all the iPhones and iPads the kids use. Supervision gives you proper control-you can stop unauthorised changes, block resets, and maintain oversight even when you’re not holding the device. By enrolling them into Apple Business Manager (ABM), I can later integrate them into whichever MDM platform I choose, automatically, as soon as they’re powered on.

For MDM, I picked Jamf Now. It’s lightweight, cloud-based, and built for smaller fleets - perfect for families. Once the devices were in ABM, I hooked them into Jamf Now, which let me set up “Blueprints” for centralised policies, manage apps remotely, and even lock or wipe a device if it’s lost. It’s free for the first three devices, then about £2 per device per month well worth it for the peace of mind.

Keeping Things Safe and Sane

Security isn’t just about patching software; it’s about creating a calmer, safer digital space. I started with a few sensible restrictions:

• Safari and social media apps like Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok are blocked or hidden entirely. If someone tries to open them, they see a security prompt.
• Safe Search is enforced, and content filtering is turned on, though for now as i said i have removed Safari

Jamf Now handles most of this at the device level, which means these settings stick even if the kids switch networks or use mobile data. You can go further with network-level tools like Cisco Umbrella, but for now, the built-in filtering does the job nicely.

A Few Technical Notes

If you’re tempted to try something similar, a few tips from the setup:

• Set up Family iCloud accounts so app downloads need approval.
• Keep all devices in supervised mode - that way, profiles can’t be removed, and device resets are blocked.

It’s not complicated once it’s running - and it’s a world away from managing ad hoc parental controls on each device.

Looking Ahead

This setup will evolve as the kids get older. I plan to introduce time-based app access (for example, social media only after homework), and eventually relax some of the restrictions as they learn to manage their own devices. The goal isn’t to lock everything down forever - it’s to build good digital habits and a sense of responsibility.

I’ve spent years protecting enterprise systems. Now, I’m finally applying that same thinking to family life - using familiar tools like iOS, Family Apple IDs, Apple Business Manager, and Jamf Now. It’s been surprisingly satisfying to bring that order and visibility into our home setup.

Of course, there are plenty of ways to achieve the same outcome, and I’m curious how others are approaching it. What’s working for you? Have you found tools or strategies that make home device management easier or more transparent?

Further reading:

• How to supervise iPhones and iPads — Apple Support
• Add devices to Apple Business Manager — Apple Support
• Jamf Now sign-up and documentation