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AT THE LABOUR ROOM (PART III)

THE TREATMENT OF WHY I EXIST GIVEN TO ME

A Pen · 2026-07-04 08:23 · 240 claps · 1.7 min read paywalled
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AT THE LABOUR ROOM (PART III)

THE TREATMENT OF WHY I EXIST GIVEN TO ME

This is the most important phase in every women’s life. Most vulnerable most crucial most critical most life changing most welcoming a new life into this world most cherishing most blessed most breath taking most precious most caressingly moment in every women’s life. But after delivery the treatment given to her by her mother in law will be different. She treated me like trash not in words but in her action.

Mine ended up in c section. The pain I endured can’t be expressed in words. Initially underwent normal delivery pain and landed onto c section. Technically experienced both levels of torment.

My baby boy got delivered on 28th April 2026 at 10.50pm and my husband was with me inside the operation theatre.

For better clarity I insist clearing it clearly

For normal delivery it us labour room and

For c section it is operation theatre

Soon after clicking picture with my baby boy and my husband and me lying in theatre bed half conscious.

And after that my c section procedure continued, the doctors and the nurses where there assessing to clean and sew the skin of mine.

It all took around 12.45 am for me to come out the operation theatre. I was under sedative but could able to see and hear, only below my neck my body I can sense the touch and all but not the pain during operation, when my eyes are still open.

Now you tell me who will a wife want to see soon after this moment of her life?

Is it her husband or her useless mother in law ?

In ma case it was this female ruining all my beautiful moments

This taste she gave earned so much of hatred towards her. Not just this moment but each and every possible way she was there to ruin my peace.

My husband I thought will be my pillar of support have been the vice versa, which I never expected.

Example: I was suffering from nipple sour due to my new borns hard palate. My nipple was in a condition where it was literally bleeding.

At that moment when I was asking my husband “it’s so much painful, for time being why can’t we switch to formula or top up for our baby”

Here tell me who is to decide

It’s me who is to decide and as a wife I’m asking my husband, it is not necessary for me to ask his mother.

Here I was very much disappointed by his behaviour. He went and asking his mother whether to switch to formula or not.


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