How TO Help Others Their Potential

What is your underlying desire in life:

Is it self-fulfillment or self-development?

Are your efforts designed to make you feel good?

Or to make you be your best? Is your goal to be successful?

Or to achieve significance?

Are you trying to achieve so you can feel happy?

Or are you trying to put yourself in a place to help others win?

These distinctions may seem subtle, but they really make a difference. Trying to feel fulfilled brings a never- ending restlessness because you will never be completely satisfied.

Trying to develop yourself is a never-ending journey and will always inspire you, because every bit of progress is a victory;

Yet there will always be new challenges to excite and inspire you.

Make sure that no person owns you. Make a list of the key people in your life.

Now think about each relationship and determine if you are mostly the giver, you are mostly the taker, or the relationship is even.

If you are primarily the taker, then you need to make adjustments so the other person doesn’t have power over you.

Make the effort to outgive the people in your life without keeping score. You can do this not only with your family and friends, but even with your employer.

Make an effort to give more work than your organization pays you for. Not only will the people you work for and with value you, but you will add.