SHOULD I SAY YES? SHOULD I SAY NO? SO MANY CONFUSION AT THE SAME TIME!

SHOULD I SAY YES? SHOULD I SAY NO? SO MANY CONFUSION AT THE SAME TIME!

I was invited to Come to my daughter’s wedding party and was given Honour to be, the father of the day! she is the daughter, I didn't know from Adam: she is the daughter, I did not know her looks or her Name, Waooh! it is callous and unusual for a father to admit that, of course she is not my Biological daughter, but a daughter of Childhood friend and a brother, because me and her father are brought up together, and according our norm and tradition, as her father’s Childhood friend, I am the one Who suppose to betroth her to a suitor, now let me tell the reader, what transpired Between me and Her Father! her father’s Name is Jarmai.

Jarmai is very intricate and violent person, he is a person who would say yes and No at the same, if you ask him, does that suppose to Mean yes or No? he will pick a violent with you, sometime he can even pick a violent with you, over a mire greeting; if you said ‘’good morning’’ to him, and the morning is not too good on his said, he would just snoop you off and walk out of you, he is a landscaper and horticultural consult and his hostiles attitude is best witness by his foremen on the site, if he comes to the site, after the foremen, continue greeting him many times without answering them, as he kept on walking, he would just purse at one time and said ‘’ are you all stupid’’ did I employed you here to greet me or to work, they foremen would keep quite for some time, he would shout to the top of his voice ‘’ answer me’’ the foremen in a low voice would say; work! he would then say, ok go back to your work! with infinity.

Jarmai has senior me, with five years but we brought up together despite the edge difference, Jarmai Married at the edge of 25 by then I was 20 years old, we all attained his wedding, since then, Jarmai has nothing to do with us( all the Childhood Friends) Neither does he visit any of us, even if any of us visit him in his marital House, he does not welcome Him or show any appreciations, some time he would left you outside and tell you he is coming back, but you would never see him again, all you would see later is a little Boy or girl with a token fee of two thousand or one thousand enclose in a pieces of paper with a Note written on the paper ‘’I am sorry I am busy, Check me next week’’ He does not discourse any Matter concerning his Family with me, after 7 years of his marriage I married too, since then I kept my Business, I don’t go to his house any more, and he does not Come to My House too, I don’t know the Names and the Number of His Children Because He did not tell me and I don’t Care to ask him, and here He is, at the edge of 50 years,

He is inviting me to Come and represent him as a Father of the Day at His daughter’s wedding, Actually I Don’t have any groggiest against him, I believe, that is his own way of life and He Has the Right to live His life the way He want it, so His attitude does not Bother me, but what Bother me Right Now is How I would Stand Before the party crew and give a testimony in favor of his Daughter's good Conduct, that I did not know about! because on the wedding day I am expected to make a speech as a Father of the Day!

the Confusion here is: can I go ahead an accept the honour to be the father of the Day and make a speech, to give a testimony in favor of the Daughter I never knew or meet before, just to amend an old friendship? or should I listing to my mother Advice and warning? My mother warn me on two things in life: (1) never you force yourself on any body in this life, whatever you do, to any body as a gesture if that person did not reciprocate your kind gesture, is a sign to show you that your gesture, is not welcome, so you better stop! (2) she further lamented that I should not tell lie in any situation I find my self, so I took her first warning, and I am Happy with the out come,

had I not took my mother’s warning at the first time when Jarmai start scorning me off, I would have been a very big disgrace to myself, so over to you, medium writers and members, please go ahead and advice me on; what to do, on this critical position of this nature, one of my mind is telling me, to listing to my mother’s second warning, another mind, is telling me that, in anything there is always exemption, who knows weather Jarmai Has learn his lesson and is coming back to make a good relationship?