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The Ability Of Making People Saying YES, “Proven Methods”

Alright as a markter and 1 writer i take care alot about perduasion

Rj · 2025-11-03 21:07 · 0 claps · 6.0 min read
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The Ability Of Making People Saying YES, “Proven Methods”

Alright as a markter and 1 writer i take care alot about perduasion

The ability of your persuading people will determine the liklyhood your marketing compganes will succced ,

But along the way of my journey i learned that persuasion is the best of the best thing that you learn 1nd 1pply it in your life

I talked about that in previous letters

Here s if you want to check it ,

And today iw ill share more of the things that persuade people , and you can use them in order to get what you out of peoole

And if you re new here hi my name is RJ i write evryday here znd my goal is to write for 365 days strike,

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Lives Transformation :

If you re in buiness and marketing chances are high tjat you ve heared a rule that says don t sell a produxt

Sell a trasformation

This rule alone could take your business to anothrr big level

But why ?

I will tell you the secrest behind it ,

People love make thier lives better ,

1ne there is some people that suffer in order to make thierlives just a little bettter

And guss what these people represent majority of the population on earth

If you can truky help them tr1nsform judt a tiny part of yheir lives

You ll be able to persuade thel with 80–90%

Yeah and here s the proven real examples

Weight Loss Prograls or the Co1ching programs that help people get fit and in a good health

Beaty institue they help peoole to get more beatiful

Progr1ms of making money they help peopple to trasform their financials life

Progr1ms of stopping difgrent kind of addictions these programshelp people to quit their bqd hqbits

And there is many other examples

Truly if yiu can help anyone even jsut a kid to tranform just a tiny part of his life , you can at anytime persuade him at high levels

Which bring us to the next point wchich is

Making Them Special :

I learned this princiole by default and yhen i made plan to persuade anyone new or i don t knoe him well and i want to persuade him to do something for me ,

And Cale Carnige in his book How to win freinds and infkunce people

.talk about this point which is ACTIVE LISENTING

But i zoomed out and i found more intresting favts when i started using these against people ,

Active lisenting is just one part from making them soecail

And what do i mean specefically is opening up to yhe person upheqd of you a little bit of your life

.Wait what ? Should i risk with my deep secrets ?

No bro just some old secrets that are not secrets anymore

Share these with them

And support with a proven phare os amking them so speciak like

Let me tell you a secret

This what i m about to tell you no one knows about it

Not everyone i disscuss these kind of aubjecta but you re special to me

All of these what will make the other person ? Feel Trustfull

So he ll do the same

So the persusion rate will be in a high

And the more conversations like this the more easilly the person get persuaded by you ,

You need to make yhem fwel special so speciall to the degree where everytime you asked for anything you ll get it

Which bring us to qnother big weapon of persuasion and so powerful which is

Your Reputation :

I tqlked many times espcially in marketing and bjsiness

About .

Building Trust , Like And love with your audience , and strangers that you do biz with them,

These 3 emotion must be built yeah

But Reputation is something beyou of that ,

It s the ROI on what yiu ve built with people ,

Reputation is the man who talks to stragers while you re not there ,

And believe mw Bro This is ao powerful , more than yiu think and here s a story to prouve that to you

In my career of college i made alot of frwinds Bro i m saying it a lot of feeinds and connections more than 400 people and if you know me well you ve niticed that in real life ,

This year i wanted some money ,

And it wasnt for an urgent thing,

So i decide to test my reputatiin bro 😂

I satrted testing it

And the rule was simple .

Don t call someone broke

Ask for the money directly and said that there is a gurrenty of leaving my Console Ps4 as a Bet just in case i don t get the money back on time ,

Alright great ?

I apllied the rules ,

Qnd i don t remeber specefically how many people i talked but no more than 12 people all of this becaude of thefirst rule don t call broke people

Becaude there is a high chance od them saying Sorry i don t have becaude they truly don t have

Qnd that s okay

From arround 12 people that i asked guss what 100% they said yes

and to prouve that my reputaion played a major role on this

All the 12 people refuse to take guarrante wcich is betting my PS4 and all of they agreed on something

Get the money back whnever is ready

The days i finished testing this i said i will keep my reputaiom safer than anything in my life

This is why most billionaire trust elon

Small busines oweners trus Homozi .

Most yiutubers trust The Bdast

Becaude theri rrputaion talks

But here the catch

It s a long term building

But it built in 10 years and it lives 1000 years

Let s move to the next point because i really like it

The Clothes That You Wear :

Yeah as you ve read clthes

Imagine a presnedent give a peesh with sport clothes

Damn it bro No ?

Clothes infkunce people by default

This is why bodygudared wears bkack suits and black sunglasses to look more seruios and anonymous

The same with sales man

Doctors engenire etc ….

Clothes plays a major role in making people whatever you wabt

If yiu wear like a bodyguard and you drive a black car cjance to influne avrage people thay you re a danger man for yhem is high ,

Because people. Judge people from their Clothes and how they wear .

It s true you can t rely just on clothes and thiking that yiu re influencung peoole .

.you need to keep using persuasiin techniques and support them with the clothes

Which bring us to the next point which is

Being The. Best In Your Field :

And this point is about positioning,

What do i mean ?!

If there is a room of youtubera and there is Mr Beast there

By defualt he gonna be the one that have most influnce

And not because he uses persuasion techniques

Because he s the best in his field

And this alone persuades people s behivor

Because in our everyday life in any feild we want to learn about it

We follow the best people in it

The experts the top 1% people

By default

This is a secret power of authority

But it s more and beyound

Because not justbecaude you re the best people got influnced by you

It s because you know what they don t know and this what drive people to get influnced by you

Becaude the knoldge that is in yourind not any knowledg but the applica le knowledge that brings results

This is why Make Money Online Gurus can easially influne people to make them buy their programs

Because they showed that their knowldge works 100% and makes money

So the kniwledge is a big part of tgis point

Becaude by default people have something we called The BS Detector

If they feel just 1% that you don t know what you re talking about they igbore yiu and chances to persuade them is so low

So you ll be forced to go to the hqrd optiin which is building trust , like qnd love with them ,

This is how it is ,

Tvis point will make you so piwzrful if you truly know how to position yiurself wther to strangers or people tht yiu just know them or evern with peoole tjat yiu lived with them for long time

I will stop here rhis time,

I leanred something about persuasion

Influnce human psychlogy and behivor

Which is tjere is millions way to make humans do what we want

You need just to test and analyze well

Thanks for your time and attention

If We haven’t met yet ,

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Until then

Keep Persuading and(DAY 351)

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