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“What are your non-negotiable rules for dating someone?”

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I know people have different non-negotiables when it comes to relationships, but everyone should look for fundamental qualities in their current or potential partner. Here are some examples:

1. Respect for boundaries No one should date a person who constantly tests their limits, **ignores their needs** and preferences, or disregards their mental and emotional health.

2. Healthy communication No matter how compatible you are, your relationship won’t last if you don’t actively listen to each other and you can’t communicate your thoughts and feelings without causing hurt.

3. Honesty If you can’t be open and vulnerable with your own partner, why are you even dating? Honesty should always be nurtured so you can build trust and intimacy and deepen your bond.

4. Loyalty Unless you both explicitly agreed to ethical non-monogamy, you and your partner should be 100% faithful to each other. If your feelings have changed, or you’ve become attracted to someone else, it’s better to end the relationship than to cheat on your partner and cause them devastating pain.

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