Still young? Should know this HARD TRUTHS!

1. Dreamer? Definitely. We all at certain point of our life are great dreamer. Dreams differ from everyone but some of the most common dreams include buying house, dream car, luxurious life, girls, and more. When young we think once we are get older we will be accomplishing everything. Everything gonna be under our feet and we will be the king. But when u get older u start to realise that some of the things we thought are not going as planned. We arent at the stage were we imagined we would be when we were young. And we might start thinking that we are falling really behind other people. This happens to most of us. Hardwork doesnt always guarantee a success. Realising this isn’t about giving up or just start living mediocre life. Rather then attaching to the outcome start enjoying the process. Every moment should feel like a victory. Thats the only true way of living a peaceful life.
2. We all get old one day. This is the one of the most uncommon but most disturbing thought I ever had. We all are familiar with the things like money can be sometimes evil or any other thoughts that are getting viral online these days but the most uncommon fact your going to come across is this one. We all are going to be old one day. Most of us would be bald with wrinkles and body won’t be as supporting as it is currently just as how our grandparents are right know. Our parents as well as our grandparents were young once with full energy but now the life has taken turn and it is inevitable for all of us too. The one things that’s inevitable of all is death bcoz no person or rather say no living organism born is immortal. Everyone dies one day. Some young, Some mid age and some old. The only point is here that don’t wait until this this age to do something. Just do whatever u want right now. Also don’t make life complex. Suffering is for everyone. Become the person who finds tranquality in suffering without ignoring the problems.
3. Inner Peace > Entertainment/ Happiness. Happiness is a fleeting, external emotion driven by favorable circumstances, achievements, or pleasures. Peace is an enduring, internal state of steady contentment that remains steady even when life gets tough. While happiness requires a reaction to the outside world, peace comes from radical acceptance within. Happiness is emotion generally dependent on external environment while peace is our state of mind and can be ever lasting. Prioritise well being. A state of happiness is being followed by sadness. Let’s recall last time when were u happy? Maybe partying, or being with friends but do u think that really had an impact on ur life. U tried to have fun to overcome the problems that had in ur life but did actually finding happiness outside had a impact on ur life? In most cases in won’t. Try priortising peace rather. Telling urself that it’s the general way of living and that’s how I’m gonna be at peace will help alot. The point here is not about not having fun but instead of thinking that this moment gonna help me overcome my stress and all won’t actually work.
4. Learn from mistake an move ahead. As the life moves on u will be coming across many things that will make u give up on yourself and u might start self sabotaging. U might end u breaking up with the person u loved the most. U might missed certain opportunities in life that could have great impact on ur life just bcoz of some mistakes. This moment is there to teach u a lesson. Take that lesson and move on. Life goes on like this. Don’t think too much about those things. It’s either a win or a learn but never a loss.
5. Practise solitude. Solitude is the peaceful, deliberate state of being alone to focus on your inner self. Solitude is not same as loneliness. A person feels lonely when he is forced to be alone i.e. no one’s with him. But solitude is a state were person deliberately lives alone to find inner peace and overcome the drama that’s happening in the world. World’s full of drama. Everyone is dramatic in some sense. Try to understand people, work with them and once done get detached. Be alone as much as u can. Try to understand urself first. Understand ur strong and week point. Work on ur week points try to be better day by day. Most importantly try to become emotionally strong.

Most of u might think I’m just being negative about life. Life is about enjoyment and u should interact with people. BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. U don’t even actually know how many faces u have. U might be calling someone else narcissict but deep down u might be one too. Understand urself first. We all have many negative qualities, rather at some level we all have all the negative qualities in us. Try to understand that. Once u look at urself u will come to know about urself and once u started understanding urself u are easily as the position where u can understand intentions of other people too.