So you turned 20 oh my
Welcome to 20s where fifty percent people of your age have everything figured out about life but the other fifty percent are still lost…
So you turned 20 oh my
Welcome to 20s where fifty percent people of your age have everything figured out about life but the other fifty percent are still lost, but where are they lost it is not like they have a imaginary world or access to the “maybe in another universe” thing. No we are simple people with simple mind, a mind which get inferiority complex whenever asked :
“Hey, so tell me what I want to do in my life or what kind of life do I want to live?” ( shocker we also ask ourselves these hard questions because why should only relatives have all the fun and it’s completely normal at this age to talk to yourself because look at all those insta reels everyone is busy making six figures a month from where, that’s a mystery for you to solve.)
Anyway coming back ti the topic our is blank completely blank and we don’t have a scroll option to move on. You know what’s funny in all of this it’s not that we still can’t figure out what we want to become, it is that we have so many option to choose from, so why box ourselves and we free will when can we use it now right (bad timing for sure but well there’s this thing called destiny soo..)Now why do we have so many options? because my uncle’s son or daughter is pursuing that field or one of my parents friend’s kids were in the same field as yours but they change it you know lack of opportunity or interest, in short you are just wasting your time and money. These are the dreaded sentences you don’t want to hear but who cares what you want hear we have opinions we are giving even when you obviously don’t want them because you look like a type of person who is used to it.From all of this drama a sane person fighting for the last bit of sanity become aaaghhh...
We want to do something in our life we are just not sure what, and as they say money is not everything so we are searching for a dream. A meaningful one because who want to hear you yap about a hobby that you thought is going to be your passion or about a business idea that will always going to remain an idea, nope people are going to judge you doesn’t matter they are the ones who come to you to ask about your future plans, about your dreams because they ran out of gossip or they just can’t find an entertaining topic to talk about. Hey but why would they gossip or ask each other about hypothetical situations when you are there a living entity full of “umm.. i don’t know” answers. For them you are the most suitable human being to experiment empathy. A empathy magnet.
So just want to say people are going to ask about every single future plan you have for your future, but you should be grateful they don’t know that you didn’t even shower today or wasted a whole day procrastinating or daydreaming, inventing fake scenarios with these very people about these same conversations where you replies like “oh I don’t know but how about you focus on your life” or “I understand your concern about me but you should try focusing on your kid too heard he failed” but in reality he didn’t, who cares and anyway it’s between me and my mirror literally. The solution for this problem would be always put on a deodorant and find a hobby that will make you smart while procrastinating and have enough blackmail material about said kid beacause you never know.
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