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4 Types of People You Should Avoid Going on Holiday/Vacation Together

When you go on vacation, you want to relax and have fun. But be wary of these 4 types of people who can spoil your moments!

Dharan.M in Mind Talk · 2024-02-28 05:28 · 95 claps · 2.1 min read paywalled
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4 Types of People You Should Avoid Going on Holiday/Vacation Together

Photo by Tron Le on Unsplash

Photo by Tron Le on Unsplash

When you go on vacation, you want to relax and have fun. But be wary of these 4 types of people who can spoil your moments!

1.) People who are unable to relax and are always in a hurry

Beware of people who are always rushing you, even though you still have plenty of time to get to your destination. I’ve come across some who miss brushing their teeth in the morning, just to get to their destination two hours early!

When on a vacation, never allow anyone to push or pressure you into rushing to a destination. It may disturb your peace on vacation.

The purpose of a vacation is to relax, not to run for your life like a deer being chased by a tiger every time.

2.) People who are too stingy

If you are going on vacation, it’s time to spend a little or more. Avoid those who are completely stingy. Some avoid many fun activities because they find it expensive or expect you to pay every time.

You can remind those who are stingy…. to stay at home.

3.) People who don’t know how to enjoy

Some go on holiday and their only fun activity is drinking alcohol and nothing else. We do not want to wake up every morning with a hangover and a terrible headache… and miss out on the beautiful moments of the here and now during vacation.

I have dined with peers who go to expensive restaurants while holding too many dietary restrictions. If you are a foodie, go ahead and enjoy eating at places with great foods. But don’t hang out with people who are ‘afraid to eat big but like to go to big restaurants.’ Some cannot really enjoy their foods but love going expensive restaurants….just to ‘feel good and look good.’

I prefer feeding myself, not my ego. I’m not going to pay a lot of money for a small bowl of soup made from tap water with a quarter carrot chunk in it….and given some weird name like… “carrotosoupatido.”

Be physically and mentally present to feel and enjoy your experience during the vacation.

  1. People who neglect their health

Going on a vacation doesn’t mean just pizzas and beers everyday. We can still go the gym or even go for a walk at the beach to recharge our energy. Go for a vacation with people who invest time in enjoying and also taking good care of their health.

Never eat heavy, sleep late, and wake up very early to rush and catch the first train. Remain mindful of bad habits that cannot contribute well to your health. Always give first priority to your health, never travel long when you’re unwell.

Hope this was helpful. Thank you for reading.

I’m the author of the empowering personal spiritual guidebook, “**The Cosmic Romance with Existence,”* and The Golden Halo, a free newsletter that delivers enlightening* stories and poems to your inbox.


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