THE BENEFIT OF DOUBT

THE BENEFIT OF DOUBT

In a society that is founded upon stereotypes, perceptions, and biases, perhaps one of the most precious things that you can afford another individual is the benefit of the doubt. The idea of giving someone the benefit of the doubt simply implies that one should not make hasty judgements on a certain individual without considering the possibility of an explanation, personal growth, miscommunication, or even uniqueness before coming to conclusions about someone based on hearsay, outward appearances, history, or the actions of those around them.

The nature of the human being dictates that people have a tendency to form opinions quickly. These opinions could sometimes come from experience, society, culture, fear, and so forth. Human beings generalize based on a few experiences or actions of particular individuals within a particular group. Such an opinion may be formed based on a particular individual’s tribe, religion, race, gender, profession, nationality, status within society, or even appearance. However, such generalizations are dangerous.

Providing people with opportunities above their stereotypes makes it possible for us to recognize individuals and not members of a group. An individual may be prejudiced against someone based on negative stereotypes associated with their origin; however, when they actually meet that individual personally, they may find out that they are kind, intelligent, disciplined, and honest. If people did not go beyond their stereotypical thinking, they would lose many relationships, cooperation opportunities, and friendship. The advantage of giving the benefit of doubt also brings harmony to society. Often people start conflicts with other people, neighbors, different nations, colleagues, and even entire countries due to their negative attitudes based on misunderstandings. Suspicion plays an important role in misunderstandings between people. When people give each other the benefit of doubt, it becomes much easier to dialogue and even show compassion.

Similarly, in interpersonal connections, giving a person the benefit of the doubt plays an equally crucial role. Even the most beloved friends, spouses, family members, and colleagues will make mistakes and even behave in an unfriendly manner from time to time. Such behavior is likely to break a relationship down completely. Still, it may turn out that a simple conversation would shed light on the true situation. A seemingly irresponsible friend was simply swamped by work. A rude colleague was stressed by some problems at home. A relative who became distant needed understanding and support. Giving a person the benefit of the doubt fosters empathy. Additionally, giving people an equal chance promotes development. As human beings, we all develop with time and become different and better in many aspects. What may seem like an awful mistake now could be rectified in the future. Society will forever lock people up in their biggest faults, making rehabilitation and change impossible. Many brilliant people whom everybody looks up to right now were criticized and underestimated in the past. Yet somebody trusted them despite their mistakes, which provided a chance for improvement…

To be continued in my next post..