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Love Stupidity and Happiness

Athena Hebe · 2026-05-24 21:49 · 0 claps · 3.0 min read
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Love Stupidity and Happiness

Is love real or a tale lovers made?

Whenever I see a couple i think about if they really love each other but sometimes I can’t any clue about it.

They act so normal and I can’t say they love each other because for me live isn’t like that but if I say they don’t love each other that would be a lie because they are a couple.

We see so many couples and they look perfect but we don’t know how much of them not real. Maybe they had argument about their clothes, date place, the food they ordered or maybe just even a wrong word.

I’m not sure they pretend everything perfect because not wanting to other people know how messed up they or just love each other that much to those not even little flaws for them.

While you scrolling you see a couple getting engaged we got all envy and think when we will be able to live same thing. There’s so many things we don’t know and maybe they argued about photos, dress, rings, family dinner etc.

But there’s a couple i see on Instagram and they are really looking good and kind couple. The way they talk each other,their gaze, voice, the words they use… not seem real to me because it’s too perfect to be real. But

I want to have relationship like theirs because they’re all cute and I can’t even imagine they arguing.

Probably having comments about how perfect human, eco friendly human or pretty they are make their bond bigger.

Is love mean this?

Every line in books about love and lovers made me stop and think for a while ‘is love something like that?’ i answer myself and sometimes it’s yes because they are fictional but there’s have moments i think it’s not how love is.

Actually there’s no describe for ‘how love is?’ because it can depend on who answer it, who ask it, when they answer it or even they could never thinked it.

For you love could be mean your partner cook for you, for someone it could be their way of showing love but if you ask me this it’s really complicated.

I can say basically love is most needed and it can’t be just normal love because it doesn’t feel right to me. There have to be respect, kindness and seriousness because we’re talking about feelings but at the same time it need to be silly because it’s not some political thing.

Why still choose love?

Love made you stupid but everyone praise it. Is it because they love being stupid or just love enough?

They don’t think about the loves other side and wear their horse glasses for love hurt and wounds.

I don’t know if my thoughts will help same when I love someone and get in relationship. I’m not even sure if I will love someone.

All wrongs of love in front of me and made me disgusted from love. I don’t think other people doesn’t see it, they see but choose to act like they didn’t because love already got them in its claw.

I want to love someone who’ll make say ‘I thought about it like that but now I see im all wrong’ because love have good sides too.

I want someone love me, make me happy, give gift, kind, joyful because if they have those, eye/hair/skin color, height, their physique, grades and clothing style starting to become less important.


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