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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

Imagine a World Where No Man Thinks He Has to Fit Into a Man Box

It maybe sounds crazy, but used in the right way, AI could be the key to unlock this Utopia

Sep 29, 2026 · 5 min read · 0 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

The Voice in the Vacuum: A Look at the Manosphere

A worldview that frames men and women as opponents in a contest, with varying degrees of belief within the community.

Sep 26, 2026 · 25 min read · 2 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

Myths That Can Be Bought Are Never Ones to Live

Moods, myths and emotions.

Jul 22, 2026 · 4 min read · 0 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Hello, Love

Green Flags to Look for in a New Relationship

Green flags indicate both goodness and compatibility, emphasizing the importance of aligning desires and values in a partner.

Jul 16, 2026 · 7 min read · 61 claps paywalled #relationships #dating #love

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

Thank You Barack Obama for Your Qualities A — Z

A heartfelt tribute celebrating the character, leadership, and lasting legacy of Barack Obama.

Jul 16, 2026 · 6 min read · 51 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Why Avoidance Makes Trauma Worse for Men

Avoiding trauma might feel like control, but it often makes symptoms worse. Learn how avoidance impacts men’s mental health, relationships…

Jul 15, 2026 · 3 min read · 50 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

When Young People Stop Believing There’s a Place for Them in the Village

A society can survive hardship surprisingly well if its young people still believe they have a stake in what comes next.

Jul 14, 2026 · 6 min read · 100 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Hello, Love

The Rise of AI Companions: The Future of Modern Relationships

We’ve moved from asking AI for directions or ideas to asking it for affection and connection.

Jul 14, 2026 · 12 min read · 34 claps paywalled #relationships #dating #love

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Let Everything Happen to You

And don’t let the old man in.

Jul 13, 2026 · 6 min read · 1 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

What a Healthy Father-Son Relationship Actually Looks Like

Focus on being present, engaged, and understanding, rather than striving for perfection.

Jul 13, 2026 · 6 min read · 0 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Know Your Home

How much do you know about what’s right in front of your nose?

Jul 12, 2026 · 2 min read · 150 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

The Reflecting Pool Is a Reflection of Donald Trump

This 14-million-dollar exercise in governmental malpractice is https://medium.com/p/2fb6aa2eed6f/edittame by comparison to the other vast…

Jul 10, 2026 · 3 min read · 55 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

When the Summit Feels Scary: Why We Sometimes Sabotage Our Dreams Right Before Achieving Them

Maybe fear isn’t a sign to stop — it’s a sign you’re close.

Jul 10, 2026 · 3 min read · 0 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Hello, Love

Looking for Love in All the Right Places: Healing the Wounds That Undermine Our Relationships

How unresolved childhood wounds can shape adult relationships and the journey toward healing.

Jul 09, 2026 · 6 min read · 57 claps paywalled #relationships #dating #love

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

You Only Fail When You Stop Trying to Succeed

True failure only occurs when one stops trying; persistence is key to eventual success.

Jul 09, 2026 · 4 min read · 56 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Yes, Your AI Is a Sociopath

The absence of empathy in the presence of high intellect creates sociopathic qualities.

Jul 07, 2026 · 8 min read · 117 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

Donald Trump Has a Toxic Understanding of What It Is to Be a ‘Man’

Examining masculinity, power, gender roles, and the cultural impact of traditional gender expectations.

Jul 07, 2026 · 7 min read · 65 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Hello, Love

Grey Rock Is Not a Survival Tool — It’s the Result of Using Them

Grey rock is one of the most widely recommended techniques for surviving an abusive relationship.

Jul 06, 2026 · 10 min read · 241 claps paywalled #relationships #dating #love

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

What Twenty Years in the Classroom Taught Me About Kindness

In a world that often celebrates competition, speed, and achievement, simple kindness still has the power to change lives.

Jul 06, 2026 · 4 min read · 60 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Your Personality: Strengths, Tendencies, and Blind Spots

Developing a more skillful relationship with yourself.

Jul 05, 2026 · 7 min read · 54 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

The Mirror That Makes Civilization Possible

The look we give and the one we get in return are two sides of one reality.

Jul 02, 2026 · 5 min read · 50 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

When the Work Still Matters, but the World Stops Caring

Reconciling ambition with patience, passion with calmness, desire for impact with acceptance of invisibility.

Jul 01, 2026 · 5 min read · 54 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

The Quiet Kindness of Two Strangers in Milan

A moment in a crowded piazza that revealed the power of stepping in

Jun 29, 2026 · 4 min read · 1 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

Why a Father’s Greatest Gift Is a Creative Mind

Cultivating the invisible tools of resilience and future strength

Jun 29, 2026 · 6 min read · 64 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

I Need a Hero and It’s We the People

Why ordinary citizens — not saviors — hold the true power to protect democracy.

Jun 27, 2026 · 4 min read · 100 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Eating Oysters With the Dead

Not as tribute. Not as performance. Just as continuity.

Jun 27, 2026 · 4 min read · 150 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

The Dilemma of Self-Doubt

The challenge is not simply to eliminate self-doubt, but to understand its role and to respond to it wisely.

Jun 26, 2026 · 7 min read · 84 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

An Exercise for Releasing Emotional Pain

Processing emotional pain is painful, but there are ways to achieve it.

Jun 25, 2026 · 5 min read · 65 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

Papa, Thank You So Much

No matter what happens, everything will be okay.

Jun 24, 2026 · 4 min read · 95 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

My Name Is Josh and I’m a Growth-aholic

The pleasures and perils of growth addiction as neurodivergent, with examples.

Jun 24, 2026 · 5 min read · 80 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

What AI Teaches Boys About Being Men

Our boys need someone who knows them to look them in the eye and ask the questions the algorithm never will.

Jun 23, 2026 · 6 min read · 50 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

The Emotional Cost of Always Having a Backup Plan

It keeps you from ever fully arriving.

Jun 22, 2026 · 4 min read · 102 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Why Is My Phone Shaming Me?

Do I really need to know just how many steps I’m taking in a day?

Jun 21, 2026 · 3 min read · 50 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

Dads’ Mental Health Is More Important Than You Realize

Here’s how it affects the whole family

Jun 20, 2026 · 12 min read · 104 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

The Grief You Call Anger

Loss creates a hole; most men spend their lives trying to fill it with something that looks like strength.

Jun 19, 2026 · 6 min read · 50 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

The Phone Numbers a Father Should Actually Know by Heart

A list taped inside a cabinet, and the quiet work of being the adult in the room.

Jun 19, 2026 · 4 min read · 50 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

What Matters More — Health or Happiness?

A moment in an oncology unit reminded me how quickly everything can change — and what truly matters when it does.

Jun 18, 2026 · 4 min read · 2 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

Adopting the Self-Coaching Mindset

You are not responsible for everything that happens to you, you are responsible for how you engage with what happens.

Jun 18, 2026 · 8 min read · 81 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

Silence Is Killing Men

The people in the most danger are the ones least likely to say it.

Jun 17, 2026 · 3 min read · 39 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

10 Tips to Help With Filter Dysmorphia

Repeated exposure to filtered images can rewire the brain, causing it to expect unrealistic perfection and leading to self-criticism.

Jun 17, 2026 · 5 min read · 39 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Hello, Love

You’re Not Reacting to Your Partner — You Left Yourself First

When connection turns into protection.

Jun 12, 2026 · 5 min read · 126 claps paywalled #relationships #dating #love

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

4 Things Men Can Do When Feeling Replaced by Their Children

When you have kids, everything changes. If you feel like your kids replaced you in your wife’s heart, you’re probably wrong.

Jun 11, 2026 · 6 min read · 75 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

I Went to India for Chicken Tikka Masala and Came Back a Vegetarian

We eat far more meat than we need, and it’s bad for the environment, bad for animals and not great for our health.

Jun 10, 2026 · 7 min read · 237 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

The Rights of Black People Are Under Attack. Decent White People Need to Fight for Them.

The rights of people of color must be the hill we take and are willing to die on, lest our fragile, imperiled Republic dies instead.

Jun 09, 2026 · 4 min read · 120 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

The Truth About Guilt Trips: It’s Called Gaslighting

The Hidden Architecture of Narcissistic Abuse

Jun 08, 2026 · 6 min read · 52 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

While Her Child Played in the Sun: A Melanoma Story About the Waiting Between Answers

In that moment, everything around her remained the same — and yet nothing felt the same.

Jun 07, 2026 · 4 min read · 106 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Change Becomes You

When Fear Teaches Silence: The Moral Courage of Saying No, Seeking Accountability, and Choosing…

“No” is a psychological boundary, not a rude word.

Jun 06, 2026 · 6 min read · 115 claps paywalled #advice #self-improvment #happiness

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TH The Good Men Project · A Parent Is Born

Moving Like a Knight

How Black fathers and father figures maneuver in systems that overlook them

Jun 05, 2026 · 8 min read · 50 claps paywalled #parenting #work #advice

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

To Hell With You, White Republican Christians (A Letter From a Former Pastor)

To hell with you for collectively selling your souls to a monstrous rapist-felon

Jun 03, 2026 · 3 min read · 251 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality

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TH The Good Men Project · Equality Includes You

“I Am a Jew”: An Experiment of Perceptions

Exploring identity, pride, and the realities of modern antisemitism

Jun 02, 2026 · 24 min read · 51 claps paywalled #social-justice #politics #equality