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NA Nanmoon

Love Is Not a Spark It Is a Series of Choices Over Time

Love is not a spark. It is a long list of choices made over time.

Jul 19, 2026 · 4 min read · 0 claps paywalled #long-term-love #my-daily-choice #modern-dating

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YA Yarro Rai

The “Intimacy Gap”: Why 18% of People are Using Phones During Sex

The first time I saw someone check their phone during sex, I thought it was a joke.

Jun 26, 2026 · 3 min read · 0 claps #relationships #modern-dating #love

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SO Sophie Espina

Adult Dating Has Become an Unpaid Part-Time Job

Somehow we’ve treated dating like a screening process.

Jun 24, 2026 · 4 min read · 50 claps #adult-dating #modern-dating #reality

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TH The Alignment Archive · The Alignment Archive

The Man Who Walks Ahead but Never Looks Back

A field note on performative dominance, attentive strength, and why being in front is not the same as leading.

Jun 17, 2026 · 5 min read · 50 claps paywalled #relationship-dynamics #masculine-leadership #emotional-awareness

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HI Higgor Araújo

Love Was Ready for Me. My Bank Account Was Not

A broke man’s guide to realizing dating is a luxury activity

Jun 10, 2026 · 11 min read · 60 claps #humor #relationships #poverty

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KO Kopi Date · Kopi Date

What We Can Learn From Being Called the Least Flirty Country in Asia

Singapore is often described as one of the most efficient countries in the world. Things work, people value productivity, and daily life…

Jun 10, 2026 · 4 min read · 0 claps #singapore #dating-culture #relationships

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QA qastro

Why People Secretly Check Relationship Compatibility Online

Love is one of the most powerful emotions in human life, but it is also one of the most uncertain. People may feel strongly attracted to…

Jun 02, 2026 · 9 min read · 0 claps #love-compatibility-secret #love-calculator #modern-dating

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LE Lena Casanova

When Does Staying on Dating Apps Actually Become Cheating?

The app isn’t what decides it. The agreement is.

Jun 01, 2026 · 3 min read · 0 claps #dating #relationships #modern-dating

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VI Vilena Kovaleva

Dating a Woman with an “Alpha” Complex? Here’s the Real Deal

Sometimes, women put barriers as a defense mechanism from chauvinistic men.

Jun 01, 2026 · 1 min read · 1 claps #alpha-woman #modern-dating #reality

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I Want to Be Seen Besides Being Wanted

I thought I was looking for love. It turns out I was looking for curiosity. These are evidence why I am cursed.

May 31, 2026 · 7 min read · 0 claps #dating-app #modern-dating #love

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NA Nanmoon

Why Unprincipled Men Always Have More Romantic Options

There is a stubborn, unspoken paradox in modern dating that continues to confuse people across all age groups and social backgrounds.

May 27, 2026 · 5 min read · 1 claps paywalled #dating-psychology #relationship-dynamics #human-nature

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KA Katya Koval

How Is AI Affecting Our Approach to Dating?

I’ve been watching AI and dating conversations for a while now, and one thing has become clear.

May 25, 2026 · 3 min read · 0 claps #ai #ai-dating #modern-dating

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KO Kopi Date · Kopi Date

Why curated dating works differently than you think

Modern dating has become a digital chore. We spend hours filtering through profiles, yet the sense of true connection feels further away…

May 21, 2026 · 3 min read · 0 claps #modern-dating #dating-culture #singapore

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NO Noor Singh · Kopi Date

The Rabbit Hole of Dating Apps | The Social Dilemma (Review)

“If you are not paying for the product, then you are the product”

May 08, 2026 · 4 min read · 0 claps #dating-app #modern-dating #digital-love

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LE Lena Casanova

Why People Date AI Chatbots Instead of Real People (2026)

People are increasingly choosing AI chatbots over real romantic partners because AI offers something real dating doesn’t: predictability…

May 01, 2026 · 6 min read · 0 claps #ai-dating #ai-chatbot #modern-dating

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NA Nanmoon

The Cost of Holding On

The ceramic cat was a mistake.

Apr 11, 2026 · 4 min read · 0 claps paywalled #self-growth #relationship-advice #psychology-facts

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SO Sophia

Facebook’s Dating AI Set Me Up With a Man Who Didn’t Exist

I still remember the exact moment my phone buzzed with that notification. It was a crisp October evening in Chicago, the kind where the…

Apr 10, 2026 · 13 min read · 1 claps #facebookdatingai #ai-dating #tech-dating

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SY Syifa Sakinah H

I Promise That No Matter How Lonely I Am, I won’t Install Bumble Again

After the last heartbreak, if I can even call it that? I’ve been left questioning the anatomy of modern grief. Is “heartbreak” even the…

Mar 31, 2026 · 2 min read · 0 claps #bumble #modern-dating

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ME Melanie Kane

The Real Success Rate of Organic Dating

You’ve swiped. You’ve matched. You’ve exchanged flirty messages that fizzled. Maybe you’ve even gone on a date that felt more like a job…

Mar 21, 2026 · 3 min read · 0 claps #modern-dating #meeting-new-people #singles-events

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GL Gleemeet

A Practical Guide to Modern Dating

Dating now is different from what it used to be; welcome the time of swipes, emojis, and algorithm-powered matches. Not only useful but…

Mar 14, 2026 · 7 min read · 0 claps #modern-dating #dating-guide #dating-tips

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DR Draupadi

Chivalry in the modern era

Hello, I’m Draupadi.

Mar 08, 2026 · 7 min read · 0 claps #feminism #chivalry #modern-dating

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PP PPK

She Seemed Perfect… Until She Did This 🚩

https://youtu.be/AcVBj5ZDwzY

Jan 29, 2026 · 0 min read · 0 claps #dating #dating-advice #mgtow

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PP PPK

Femininity vs. The “Boss Babe” Mentality 🎭

https://youtu.be/TP7UZpLGe5U

Jan 25, 2026 · 0 min read · 0 claps #dating #modern-women #modern-dating

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TO Tom

You Say You Want a Nice Guy — But Do You Really?

When the man who waits, listens, and loves deeply is left waiting.

Dec 28, 2025 · 2 min read · 0 claps #modern-dating #emotional-availability #relationships

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MU Muhsin Tokel · Health and Lifestyle

Why Modern Dating Feels Like a Transaction (Not a Connection)

We Don’t Date Anymore — We Negotiate.

Nov 05, 2025 · 2 min read · 0 claps paywalled #dating #relationships #sex

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ZE Zeeshan Farooq

Find Love in the Algorithm: Your Guide to ‘Swipe Smart 2025’

Try It out here E-Book

Nov 03, 2025 · 3 min read · 0 claps #online-dating #dating-advice #dating-guide

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RI Rishikesh Kohale

Body Count: The Most Useless Metric in Modern Dating

Is body count good or bad? For Gen Z, it’s a meaningless number. Here’s why counting bodies can’t measure connection or character.

Oct 11, 2025 · 5 min read · 2 claps #body-count #modern-dating #hookup-culture

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KO Kopi Date · Kopi Date

Is Modern Dating Making Us More Connected or Just More Replaceable?

You can match with someone, send a few messages, get ghosted or move on, and then do it all over again before lunch. That’s how dating…

Aug 07, 2025 · 3 min read · 0 claps #relationships-love-dating #healthy-relationships #modern-dating

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RA Ral Joseph · Planet Ral 🌐

Love University 💗

Come With Me To School 😂

Jul 12, 2025 · 2 min read · 3,179 claps paywalled #bar-encounter #love-university #pick-up-lines

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GA Gaurav Yadav

The Evolution of Modern Dating Apps

Introduction

Nov 03, 2024 · 5 min read · 29 claps #dating #dating-app #date

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TH The Dude Writes

Dating apps for most guys is like pissing into the wind

This isn’t doomer click bait. There’s a silver lining.

May 09, 2024 · 4 min read · 164 claps paywalled #dating-advice-for-men #blackpills #incel

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JI Jimi Afolabi

Who killed Chivalry

In Modern dating, one of the most common phrases you come across is “Chivalry is dead. ” I came across the phrase whilst reading an…

May 30, 2023 · 16 min read · 58 claps #chivalry #chivalry-is-dead #dating