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The Ghost Of Always Being Second Best

What if I’ll never be perfect enough to love?

The feeling of love and being loved has always been foreign to me. No, not the daughter-parents love or the love you received from your…

Change the prophecy

Basically, I’ve never really felt like the kind of person people naturally notice in a good way. I’ve always felt different somehow. I hate…

Not writer enough

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Why You Are Existing Instead of Living and Why Nothing Feels Like Enough

Why do I feel like I am just existing and not living?

Emotional Rationing

Have you ever been with someone who practices something I call “Emotional Rationing”?

We’re Not Meant To Be (Maybe)

Aku selalu suka sama lagu Meant 2 Be dari Nuca dan Shakira Jasmine. Bahkan tulisan ini awalnya juga dari situ, dari aku yang suka banget…

Is it Enough?

April 9, 2026

Why I Cancelled My ChatGPT Subscription

Hey folks,

Stop Calling Women “Too Emotional”

When my daughter was young, she dressed exactly how she wanted. Long skirts with high-collar shirts. Sometimes all black. Purple or pink…

El Arte de Pretender para Sobrevivir

De lo único que me encuentro agradecido es de la pretensión. Así es, el pretender. Sí, me acuerdo bien de cuándo fui feliz. Parece cada día…

Should We Change Ourselves to Be Loved?

I used to think love was a mirror. That if I could just reflect what someone wanted to see, they would love me back. I believed if I…