Under Control
Wanting to keep everything under control is like obstructing synchronicity.
Under Control

Mind or heart? — image AI Canva
Wanting to keep everything under control is like obstructing synchronicity.
It is almost as if one were placing boundaries around a function that, in order to operate, must instead remain free to expand and bring into synchrony processes that normally occur on the frequencies of the mind and of the self understood as will.
But one must be careful not to turn this observation into the idea that nothing should be done simply to allow synchronicity to play its role.
The question concerns, first of all, the condition in which one finds oneself: that of someone who, in some way, knows they are directly connected with synchronicity.
But how can one understand whether one is connected or not?
By observing oneself in relation to the brain frequencies on which one is normally connected.
When one is within synchronicity, a suspension of the mind becomes noticeable, because it is evident: one is not reasoning, one is simply listening.
Recognizing this condition is important in order not to confuse the different roles and to learn to understand one’s own inner configuration, so that it can be recognized more easily.
But what must one do to enter it?
There is no universal method.
It is a matter of acquired sensitivity which, without being a decision of the mind, opens the connection with synchronicity.
It concerns one’s own state of being and is not something that can be produced or influenced from outside.
One must learn to perceive, among the frequencies in which the mind normally operates, those conditions in which the need to intervene disappears.
Because when the mind can no longer sustain a certain level of frequency, it necessarily has to let go.
And when it lets go, presence can emerge.
Put in these terms, the condition may seem difficult to identify.
Also because the gauge, the measure by which it can be recognized, is precisely one’s own presence detached from the mind.
The counterproof, if we want to call it that, is immediate.
One simply has to ask whether one wants to be present to synchronicity.
Because the very desire to do so may mean that one is still within the circuit of will and therefore outside the circuit of synchronicity.
Are we always synchronized with synchronicity?
Normally, no.
We are embodied presence within a daily reality that requires us to deal with practical matters, where the presence of the mind is normal — and often necessary — because it has to reason in order to solve problems.
But at a deeper level, when one is certain of being synchronized, it may be sufficient not to intervene through will.
Not because everything will resolve itself.
But because action can develop in a different way from the one determined by will.
We are dealing with different levels.
The level of synchronicity, being deeper, is a function of unfolding: what is compressed within the interior can progressively emerge and become reality.
Returning to the starting point, every method is therefore a personal configuration.
And if one is bluffing, if one believes one is within synchronicity while still trying to control what is happening, one is only deceiving oneself.
This is why it becomes essential not to confuse the roles between being presence — free from conditioning and attraction — and being the mind that must act through will.
It is as if an autopilot were being engaged.
Not an autopilot that has to solve problems in place of the human being, but a function capable of recognizing what, coming through synchronicity, is already in the process of emerging.
Does it happen because everything is predetermined?
Because we are forced to submit to someone who decides in our place?
Almost like a master pulling the strings and directing everything?
No.
When one thinks in these terms, precisely because one is still asking the question, one is already outside synchronicity.
Synchronicity, as spontaneity, does not even contemplate this problem.
It is not predestination.
It is not obedience.
It is not a renunciation of freedom.
It is a condition in which the need for the self to determine every step through will disappears.
It is, if we want to call it that, a different mode of action.
So what must one do?
Become increasingly accustomed to understanding, going progressively deeper.
In simple terms, this means learning to sustain brain frequencies without remaining completely magnetized by them, so that gradually a different impedance can emerge, capable of synchronizing presence with the frequencies of the heart.
The heart, in this perspective, is not simply a physical organ.
It becomes the reference point for a mode of resonance through which presence can enter into relationship with the field of synchronicity.
It is certainly not a simple condition to achieve.
If it were, it would be a contradiction.
It requires inner work, application and dedication, provided one is certain that this is what one truly wishes to explore.
That is, if one is certain that one can operate on Earth, during incarnation, in close contact with one’s Self.
With one’s inner being, while still inhabiting a physical body.
The fundamental condition is to know how to distinguish when one is presence, listening and collaborating, and when one has instead become magnetized by the mind again.
This does not mean disconnecting from physicality.
On the contrary.
Presence must remain within earthly existence because it is precisely within earthly existence that it can act.
It is rather a matter of becoming demagnetized from the exclusive dominance of the mental frequency, the one in which will attempts to control everything.
Either one remains within the circuit of the mind that reasons and decides, or one can access a condition in which presence listens and allows itself to be permeated.
Because the function of presence is not to escape physicality.
It is to allow itself to be permeated by what comes from a deeper level and to allow this to find expression in concrete life.
This is where synchronicity ceases to be something that simply happens.
It becomes a mode through which presence can act.
Not under control.
But in resonance.
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